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re: Wanting to steals hubby's sperm

posted 22nd Nov

Quoting Just Andria:" LOL..... Cant say I ever wanted to steal it. It's usually more like get that smurf away from me!"

My thoughts exactly!!!

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I'm due July 7th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Ontario

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Kelly&Coralie

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posted 22nd Nov

Aren't you being the selfish one by trying to make a baby that he doesn't want?

I suggest counseling for BOTH of you

Having kids is an issue that can make or break a marraige. Both people need to be on the same page and agree.

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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York

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Kelly Clark1990

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posted 22nd Nov

if you want to get pregnent just stop thinking about it ,it will happen me and my man waited 4 years and we are due a first in jan so it will happen put your mind to sumthing eles

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I'm due January 6th (it's a surprise) & live in Bishop's Cleeve, United Kingdom

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JiLLiAN.

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posted 22nd Nov

even if you got pregnant, and he didn't want the kid, it doesn't mean he will stick around.

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I have 2 kids & live in New York

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Andi+Andy=Marley+1

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posted 22nd Nov

I think you are very young still and he may want to experience life first before having kids. Have your fun for awhile because once you do have kids your freedom is very limited. Maybe instead of pressuring him sit down and talk about when you both think will be a good time for kids. I know that when my husband wasn't ready to make our first and second child he didn't want to talk about when he he would want to TTC. I'd just let him know I was ready for a child and ask him to think about it and when he was ready he'd just say 'I'm ready' and we'd get down to it. I had to wait 2 years for him to agree to have a second child

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I have 2 kids & live in Fredericksburg, Virginia

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SavageDarling

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posted 22nd Nov

<blockquote>Quoting ♥T-D-A♥:" I think you should respect your husbands wishes. Being pressured into something he is obviously not ready for could be disastrous. You are young, the time will come."</blockquote>

Oh yeah huh? I didn't realize how young she is. Op, give yourself and him some time to be married and living as adults before throwing a baby, which literally changes EVERYTHING, into the mix.

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I have 3 kids & live in Webster, Massachusetts

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Jackie Burkhart ♡

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posted 22nd Nov

<blockquote>Quoting Bustie:" He should have told her that then... he is wrong and selfish"</blockquote>

He's wrong and selfish? She's talking about wanting to steal his sperm to make a baby he doesn't want. That is wrong and selfish.

Even putting that aside its not selfish of him to not want a child. Its probably a good thing he doesn't just give her a kid that he'll resent because he didn't want it in the first place.

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I have 1 child & live in Wisconsin

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Dana .33wks.

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posted 22nd Nov

Quoting SkinnyBitch:" I want to be pregnant so badly. Wish I could steal my husbands sperm somehow anyone else really wish they could get pregnant and that their husband's would just stop being selfish?."

Maybe just give him time to come around. Youre only 18. Theres plenty time for baby making. But if he never wants kids, then I would think about being with someone that shares your interest..

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I'm due July 7th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Ontario

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☮[The Mrs.]

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posted 22nd Nov

You're young and you still have time and you're just married, enjoy the married life a little. I don't know how old your DH is but throwing a baby into the mix of a young relationship can tense things up. You both have to learn to compromise that's going to be an important part of your marriage, maybe talk to him and set a date or age to start TTC. See why he doesn't want to TTC, he could have genuine concerns or may just not be ready for kids. If you rush him to have a kid he may end up resenting you and the kid

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I'm due with 5 December 5th, have 3 kids & live in Fayetteville, North Carolina

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☮ Phuket

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posted 22nd Nov

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" even if you got pregnant, and he didn't want the kid, it doesn't mean he will stick around."

i was just thinking that.. if you popped up pregnant OP, hed probably freak out, tell you to abort and run away or something.

if you knew he didnt want kids why did you marry him?

im sorry that would suck, if you really wanted a baby and the one person you loved iddnt give it to you.. if he is gonna be like that, and you dont have kids already...

id probably find somdone else who was on the same page as me. goodl uck.

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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand

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MrsWilliams154

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posted 22nd Nov

Save up and go on holiday so you can both relax and figure out what you both want - it won't work if you both want very different things.

Also, you're not legally old enough to drink yet which is something that is fun but can be tricky when you have a baby.

Also, surely you wouldn't want to get pregnant and then he leave you because of it? When the time is right you'll both be happier and pregnancy isn't always the fun fair ride everyone makes it out to be - I've thrown up 8 times in an hour.

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I'm due June 25th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Oxford, United Kingdom

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Legendary Amanda

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posted 22nd Nov

I think if I wanted something that bad and it wasn't a bad idea for our family, there isn't much my husband wouldn't do.

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I have 1 child & live in Beverly Hills, California

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Bustie

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posted 22nd Nov

Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:" <blockquote>Quoting Bustie:" He should have told her that then... he is wrong ... [snip!] ... child. Its probably a good thing he doesn't just give her a kid that he'll resent because he didn't want it in the first place."

im sure the steal sperm thing is just an expression of her pain and desperation ... not literal or else im sure a wife could easily "steal" it and would not need to want to

she is hurting which is understandable

he told her he wanted kids then changed his mind randomly that is selfish and wrong do not get married to someone who wants kids if you do not

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I have 1 angel baby & live in San Diego, California

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Kelly&Coralie

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posted 22nd Nov

Quoting Bustie:" im sure the steal sperm thing is just an expression of her pain and desperation ... not literal or else ... [snip!] ... wanted kids then changed his mind randomly that is selfish and wrong do not get married to someone who wants kids if you do not"

Just becasue he doesn't want kids NOW doesn't mean he won't want them in the future. I assume they are both still teenagers. There are still decades left to have children. It doesn't need to be right this second

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I have 1 child & live in Rochester, New York

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Legendary Amanda

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posted 22nd Nov

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i was just thinking that.. if you popped up pregnant OP, hed probably freak out, tell you to abort ... [snip!] ... that, and you dont have kids already... id probably find somdone else who was on the same page as me. goodl uck. "

Yeah, you are just not of the same page as him OP. And TBH I can't imagine wanting something as badly as that and having my husband not even consider it. That doesn't sound like a very enjoyable marriage to me.

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