Quoting mamastj:" Maybe you need to seek some grief counselling. I miscarried just over a year ago as well, it was very ... [snip!] ... You have so much love to give and any child would be lucky to be on the receiving end. My condolences and best wishes!"
Thank you. We are just going to let it happen, it'll happen when it's time & your right I can't let myself think any of this was my fault unless I knew I done something to cause it to happen ( in which I didn't ) so I do need to just keep telling myself that everything does happen for a reason & if my baby were to been born with something wrong with him/her I wouldn't want it to had to suffer through pain everyday of it's life that'd been wrong on my part. So in a way that does ease my mind that maybe that's why it happened and not just that I was young & so was my husband so we didn't deserve a baby, I feel that GOD wouldn't have done that cause everybody is capable of taking care of a baby if they can create one, just a matter if you will or not. But again I really appreciate you giving me advise it does help alot,