I need some adivce, ladies...

Okay...so first let say Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.

Well, the thing is...my mother, sisters & I are supposed to be going to my aunts house about an hour away from us.
& my mom's side of my family doesn't get along with my dad...so, he will be spending Thanksgiving alone.

Would you go to the Thanksgiving, with your mom ?

or would you stay with your dad ?

I'd definitely be staying with my dad.

i would stay with my dad.

That's not even a question I'd have to ask myself. I'd be staying with my father.

i would stay with dad. Cook him some dinner!

I would have figured it out before the night before Thanksgiving.
I would stay with your dad who is alone though, or at least offer to stay.

My mom just had surgery 3 weeks ago and doesn't want to go anywhere, so we are going to the in-laws for a couple hours, then I plan on coming home and spending time with my mom who will be alone with my little sister. SO is going to be pissed, but I don't feel like sitting around and watching his family get drunk and scream at the TV. But the in-laws are right in town, so it makes it easier for us to do both.

There would be no second thought, I would be staying with my dad.

I would stay with your dad. Nobody deserves to be alone during the holidays

I'd be staying with my father.

You ladies are right..

I was not sure at first...because, it would only be...me, him & Alyssa.

I just don't want to upset my mother..that I am not going to go with her

Quoting C A R M E L A:" You ladies are right.. I was not sure at first...because, it would only be...me, him & Alyssa. I just don't want to upset my mother..that I am not going to go with her"

if she gets upset she will get over it.. she has people there. he has no one im sure it would make his day.

Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" if she gets upset she will get over it.. she has people there. he has no one im sure it would make his day. "

it did..

I just told him...me & Alyssa are staying with him.

There's not much to do here & we have no car...so, I guess we will just have to come up with things.

To bad you couldnt do a lunch with one of them and then dinner with the other. Tomorrow we are going to dh's dads thanksgiving lunch. Then were going to my mom and dads for dinner and luckily dhs mom and step dad come to my moms