I've been with this guy. We're not in a technical relationship. We were in a relationship for a month but he title kind of made us both weird. For some reason we had a hard time opening up. We decided to be friends. Things are pretty good now. Sometimes it feels like we're more than friends. We have sex but it's not the typical friends with benefits type of deal. We hang out for hours and after sex we usually cuddle and talk, I've slept over a few times. We also agreed that we're only doing this with each other and that we will tell each other if we want to see someone else.

But now Christmas is coming up and he's kind of been dropping hints about presents. I really do want to get him something. We're friends and I used to always get my friends presents. I just don't want him to think I'm pressuring him into something more than what we are now. As much as I do want a real relationship, I don't want to ruin what we have. Do you think it'd be weird or make it seem like I'm trying to hard if I get him something?

He's a huge Sons of Anarchy fan. He's said before that he really wants a sweatshirt with the patches on it but he says he's too cheap to ever buy one for himself. He hates spending money on himself. There's a place in the mall that sells them for $30 which isn't bad. Would it be a good idea or not so much?

I would do it.

I would so do it! A sweatshirt is definitely a very "friendship" gift. Now, if you got him cologne (which says I'd like you to smell like this) or something like that, it might seem like a pressure gift. But, a sweatshirt is safe