Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You need to tell him he needs to play his smurfing part or you will find someone who will."
Quoting Tiffany M Middleton:" When our son was in NICU he couldnt wait to come and see both of us because i stayed there of course. ... [snip!] ... i confronted him on it and he said that it was just tomeet and talk to new people...what the hell kind of excuse is that???"
Quoting annabelle509:" is he depressed or un happy?"
Quoting Tiffany M Middleton:" Idk he wont talk to me about anything. I hardly get him to say hello when he gets home. He gets in the house i make him donner nad i take him his plate and he goes in the room and goes to bed."
Quoting annabelle509:" tell him that if he wont open up and talk with you to try and resolve some of these porblems, then you ... [snip!] ... either, tell him he needs to figure his smurf out or move the smurf out. communication is necesary for a relationship to work."
Quoting RainbowDash:" Okay if he's on dating sites to "meet and talk to people", but he's not talking to you, there's a problem. ... [snip!] ... on. Guys aren't just there one minute and then mentally and emotionally check out the next minute without something being up."Thats exactly what I thought to...I am going to try to talk to him on friday after thanksgiving. he has the week off till monday so hopefully he can find some time for me in there. Maybe if I explain to him that i think im getting PPD o rhave it he will listen he has always been concerned about my well being. If not i think I am going to consider counseling.