re: I dont want her to have to go through this!!

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this OP, it's really a smurffy situation to be in. I can kinda see his point, but I also see yours as well.. if that makes any sense. But for him to stick around after 2 years after the relationship was over, and then JUST stop, makes no sense to me. I feel like it won't last long, and he will see he's hurting her more than anything and continue being there for her. I think you should just sit him down and just tell him how you feel and let him know how much that child adores him and thinks of him as her father. The girls father and I split up almost a year ago and he's not been here hardly at all for them and they BOTH realize it and have taken up so much with my SO. Peyton, the baby thinks of him as her father. Krysten knows the difference, but she also knows my SO is there for her and daddy isn't. It would really hurt me if something was to happen to me and SO and he just stopped being there for them, so I know how you feel. I really hope and pray he changes his mind because he could really hurt her bad.