I LOVE HIM BUT HE'S GONE OFF SEX!!!!

I'am 20yrs old my Fiance and i have two wonderful kid's together. but our sex life has gone wrong since the birth of our youngest child. we used to have sex four times a week but the last time he smurfed me was about three weeks ago his totally gone off sex!!!!! i could feel like having it while we are in bed 2gether and he will turn me down saying hunny I'm not in the mood right now tomo but that never comes this leaves me upset and confused.  

... Lucky.
I have the opposite problem in my relationship. I don't want the sex, my SO does..

I mean...shame on him for not wanting to jump your bones every freaking night, right?

 

You've got two kids now. Smurf happens.

Is he depressed or stressed out? Men arent that much different from women in terms of sex. If we're depressed, stressed, we dont feel appreciated or that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex.

Does he work? maybe he's tired.....

Communication, communication, communication! Tell him how you feel and see what is going on with him.

Sounds like my dh

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" ... Lucky. I have the opposite problem in my relationship. I don't want the sex, my SO does.. "

me too!
but i have some serious issues with my vagina.
sex always hurts, thought i might have endomitriosis but its been like this since before LO was born.
DH is a total horn dog so i have to put up with it almost every day.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Is he depressed or stressed out? Men arent that much different from women in terms of sex. If we're depressed, ... [snip!] ... terms of sex. If we're depressed, stressed, we dont feel appreciated or that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex."</blockquote>



no he is perfectly fine he just being an smurf

My husband has been wanting some once maybe twice a week, and I think he'd be fine without it at all but does it to keep me happy because he is insanely stressed and works too much.

Guys can't fake it if they aren't in the mood like a lady. Maybe something is stressing him out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Does he work? maybe he's tired....."</blockquote>



yes he does work but he gets plenty of sleep

Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Is he depressed or stressed out? ... [snip!] ... that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex."</blockquote> no he is perfectly fine he just being an smurf"

well he's not fine if hes not wanting to have sex with you.

Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Is he depressed or stressed out? ... [snip!] ... that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex."</blockquote> no he is perfectly fine he just being an smurf"

Not wanting to have sex all the time doesn't make someone an smurf,
maybe you're annoying and in turn you are the smurf?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" Communication, communication, communication! Tell him how you feel and see what is going on with him."</blockquote>

I've talked with him its no good comes in one ear goes out the other.

Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Does he work? maybe he's tired....."</blockquote> yes he does work but he gets plenty of sleep"

Just because he gets plenty of sleep doesn't mean he's not tired....