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Try for baby #3 or no.....

posted 21st Nov
Long story short, I am 21 with two kids. My son is 3 and my daughter is 1. They are from the same father, I am now with someone new. My high school sweetheart! He and my kids are madly in love with eachother. He is amazing with them. My daughter calls him dada, and my son chooses to be with him rather than his dad. Anyways... He really wants to have his "own" baby. I love being a mother. I just know that being a mom is what I was meant to be. So I honestly have no problems having more kids. I want 4 or 5. But I turned 21 in May and I want to have a lil fun. I got pregnant with my son at 17, so my teen years were gone... Not complaining, but now that my kids are at a age that I can leave them for a couple hours I want to go out. Or have a glass of wine... Sounds kinda selfish typing it all out right now. Im choosing having fun over a baby. But thats how I feel.... What do you mommies think???
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I have 2 kids & live in Tualatin, Oregon
posted 21st Nov
No reason to rush! Take your time and have fun! You have PLENTY of time to have more children!
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I have 2 kids & live in Connecticut
posted 21st Nov
So young to have potentially 3 kids. Wait a few years.
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I'm due November 8th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 21st Nov
its not selfish for u to want to have a little fun there is plenty of time for you to have more babies!
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I have 1 child & live in POWELL, Tennessee
posted 21st Nov
I would wait till I got married, personally. If this guy goes away, being a single mom of 3 under the age of 22 would really suck. At least if you wait till he serious about being with you, you have more assurance. Most 21 year old guys don't crave babies, so I would be cautious. You have plenty of child bearing years ahead of you.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
posted 21st Nov
If you think this guy isn't going anywhere, there's no rush and I guess if you do think he's going somewhere you shouldn't be having a baby, lol! I would wait personally, but he might be a lil jealous and want a lil bean of his own. I would just discuss it and see if there's any reason to rush?
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I have 2 kids & live in Wichita, Kansas
posted 21st Nov
Jjst wait a little bit lol trust me. Have some fun turn 22 and then get pregnant
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 21st Nov
Why the rush? You're quite young yet.
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I live in Florida
posted 21st Nov
I dont see the rush, but he really wants a baby! Love being pregnant, love the labor, and love being a mom. But I kinda think its to soon also. Just want to have fun. Then be a mommy again...  
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I have 2 kids & live in Tualatin, Oregon
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