wtf

tell me how i'm getting bashed for NOT letting my 4 month old stay the night any where!!?

back story: a girl i was hanging out with is 18 still concidered single (says she's engaged), i'm 21 & married. her BD & DH were really good friends hit it off automatically & i've known the girl since i was 16. well we were due 2 weeks apart. she bitched & complained even faked symptoms to be induced & bad part is she succeded in it. i went 1 day over EDD. her daughter born july 2nd, mine on july 27th. well she pulled me in a whole bunch of her family drama, thinking she & her daughter were in danger. well i stopped talking to her to much bullsmurf to handle. exspecially with her lying on myself saying i tried to abort DD but was to far along to, & that my cousin had an abortion when her BF left for college.

now her mom is bashing me for NOT letting my 4 month old stay any where. saying she's gonna be extreamly clingy, & always up my butt. umm last time i checked when you had a child there's times when you can't even go piss by yourself, regardless if LO was with you all the time or not. saying my child wont socially advance because i don't allow her to interact with other childern blah blah blah. which is bullsmurf for 1 myself & some friends have what we call "mommy dates" LOs are to young to even think about playing with one another. & 2nd it's not like i am always with DD. i have her grandparents watch her atleast once a week for date night, if i need to go to the store & it's to cold to take her out. but come on saying she wont advance socially because i'm not ready for her to go stay the night with anyone is a little harsh don't you think!!? & of course she hasn't stayed the night anywhere because i was trying to EBF (didn't work well, & she started weening herself off the breast). who is she to judge me because i'm not ready to send DD packing to someones house. not to mention most of my family aare smokers & i don't allow her to be around smoke, so if they want to see her they come here.

Why do you care?

What's it any of her business whether or not your DD spends the night anywhere? Your DD is only 4 months !

By the end of this post, I was just like. wtf...
Appropriate title. Your kid will be fine. I'll be the same way when my little girl comes. Most of my family are whack jobs, or dead. 4 months is too young anyway. That would scare me it'd be pointless I'd stress the whole time. Screw her. And that women in the first paragraph sounds selfish and irresponsible. Lying to be induced?