Quoting emmygog[Felix's Mommy]:" Honestly, I don't think I can do this yet. I don't really even want time away from him. My husband basically ... [snip!] ... buy him toys and clothes. :/ I don't really want a break from him. Not yet. I'm sure sometime but right now doesn't feel right."
My Lo is 14 months old and has not slept out overnight yet. I have been asked a number of times from my dad and the MIL but I explained that when I am ready they can have him. My mum has never asked as she understands where I am coming from as I did not sleep out until I was 4 years old. Today was the first time he napped out at my mum and dads due to an appointment. He did really well in a strange room but he does have a very good relationship with them, also my mum does stop at my house when my partner is away on business.
You will know when you are ready, I am the same I am a SAHM at moment and the longest I have been away from him is around 4 hours. I mix him with loads of people and he is a very social little boy, but it is me I am scared when he is not here. Do not feel guilty and just keep saying you are not ready yet, yes you may start sounding like a broken record
but do not be pressured into something you are not happy with x