Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" As a teacher, I'd prefer the parent coming ... [snip!] ... but unconsciously do you think it could happen? I don't want to effect his relationship with his teacher negatively."
It really, really depends on the teacher. I wouldn't be offended at all and be grateful she came to me first and would try to better my class... but only because I rock on so many levels.
but I know many, many teachers who would be offended or would brush off the concern completely, though I don't know too many who would treat the child differently, to be honest.
Most teachers are teachers because even though the little devils drive us insane, we really do love your kids!