MY SO IS SO HOOKED ON POT

have you talked to him about it?

Have you asked him why he smokes so much? Is e bringing in all the money? And at 20 weeks I had nothing for the baby, you're fine.

yea and he doesnt seem to think its a problem and then gets all defensive ...

The only problem that I have is the fact he seems to be picking pot over your financial situation. It seems from the little bit you told us that you are struggling

I wish we lived closer, I have some newborn stuff that I don't need.

I'd talk to him about it.

Quoting Britt_marz:" Okay so my SO and I have been together for 2 years and we are now 20 wks prego with our son. We are a ... [snip!] ... to do... I dont mind if he smoke i just want him to cut back so we can buy the things we need for our son. It just hurts me."

You can't be "hooked" on pot. You just need to talk to him about spending so much on it.

He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ....

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" You can't be "hooked" on pot. You just need to talk to him about spending so much on it."

 

Quoting Britt_marz:" He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ...."

I'm assuming you mean needs and not crap? Otherwise you'd be just as guilty as he is as far as money spending goes.

Thank you ladies I will talk to him more about it..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Britt_marz:</b>" He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ...."</blockquote>


Well explain to him he's going to have to cut down as it gets closer to your due date. Babies aren't cheap.

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" I'm assuming you mean needs and not crap? Otherwise you'd be just as guilty as he is as far as money spending goes."

I think you misunderstood or maybe I did....but she means that she spends her own money on bills and never spends her money on what she wants or luxuries.

Well sure but I will and always have pushed myself as far as i can without getting things that i need because i can not afford them... and i make it work but its hard. .... Weed is not a need, and $200 on it that didnt even last 2 wks is CRAZY ! So understand that this is where im coming from. Let me tell you something I have nothing for myself all that i do have has holes and does not fit anymore but i make it last so we can get by and pay our bills.

Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Britt_marz:</b>" He does bring in all the money but i do work ... [snip!] ... Well explain to him he's going to have to cut down as it gets closer to your due date. Babies aren't cheap."

Thanks girl