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huh?

Just tell him?

Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" huh? "

 

You have to tell him sooner or later, i mean hes going to figure it out soon

R you still together?

Tell him ur pregnant and keeping the baby! If he chooses to leave then fine. Ur family already said they would help u  

Also, how did your very catholic family feel about you being pregnant when your nt married?

Op I hope you chose to have this baby and you didn't just keep it because of your family...

He's a dick for trying to force you into an abortion... but you lying about it, is crazy.

Your relationship is stuffed up. Let him know you're pregnant and walk away now. Claim child support when the babies born and hope that he wants to be a good dad by then.

I'm just not sure how you can repair the emotional damage both of you have caused each other. I really doubt it's possible.

Im sorry but he is a douche . Why do you want to be with someone who has pretty much said he will leave you if you keep the baby . He will figure it out soon so you should really tell him and then leave him he doesn't deserve you or the baby !

Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" R you still together?"

yes we are still together..

You're 22 years old, I hope you don't mean your family is going to financially support your baby.
Tell your boyfriend you're keeping the baby and let him break up with you. Just like he can't force you to get an abortion you can't force him to want the baby. You can do it without him, if he doesn't love you enough to want to help you raise the baby you both made then he's not worth it.

personally I would have done both...had an abortion and left the douche....he wants to help make babies but wants no responsibility in taking care of it..but you're not having an abortion so I suggest you tell him you're keeping the baby and he has the choice to be in or out of the baby's life.

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" You're 22 years old, I hope you don't mean your family is going to financially support your baby. Tell ... [snip!] ... can do it without him, if he doesn't love you enough to want to help you raise the baby you both made then he's not worth it."

i am capable of taking care of my baby my self financially i mean ... but what mean when my family care of the baby is support me mentally n be there for me if i ever need it ....

Lying about it was definitely the wrong way to go. I'd rather be told the truth and be pissed about it than to be lied to and find out later, and be even more pissed. Tell him the truth, and leave the guy. Obviously if he was pushing so hard for an abortion, he doesn't want the baby, right? So leave, then apply for CS when the baby is born. He helped make it, he can help pay for it.