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Why are you posting in teen pregnancy qhen you're 22? Lol.


You need to tell him. Like a month ago. All of this is EXTREMELY immature.
Women go through pregnancy alone all of the time. I did for the most part. You'll live.
Being a single parent is even lonlier, might as well get used to it now.


You need to grow up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryloonjimama:</b>" He's a dick for trying to force you into an abortion... but you lying about it, is crazy. Your relationship ... [snip!] ... I'm just not sure how you can repair the emotional damage both of you have caused each other. I really doubt it's possible."</blockquote>




!!!!
Your bf sounds like a douche! There is no way of let someone tell me I can't have my baby just because he doesn't want it, that's what they make child support for.

Quoting mimi hoang:" i found out that i am 5week pregnant in sep. told my bf and some of my family member , my family is perfectly ... [snip!] ... i feel like i cant hide any long .....what should i do? should i just leave him n dont let him know that im still pregnant ?"

Oh lord. Well that sucks....if he doesn't get his head out of his ass, it looks like you're gona be stuck as a single mom. Hopefully he works and you can at least get him for child support. No offense but you should find out about these things BEFORE you do the deed.

Nobody has the right to dictate YOUR abortion, tell him to kiss your ass.

You shouldn't have lied and if he isn't man enough to be around for you and his kid then he isn't worth a rats ass.

Tell him (even if you have to do it in writing), explain that you are keeping the baby (I'm assuming that's your plan) and that either he is 100% committed to you both or not to contact either of you.

Please don't pander to him, he sounds like a prick.

Quoting mimi hoang:"should i just leave him n dont let him know that im still pregnant ?"

Here's what you should do, You have to tell him, he has every right to know you are still pregnant. You shouldn't have lied to him in the first place. Honestly if you are 22 and still so immature that you would lie to him about getting an abortion I don't think you should parent this child.

The fact that you lied to him about getting an abortion shows you are still very much a child yourself, not to mention your lack of grammatical skills and the fact that you type like a 16 year old on an instant messenger. These fact lead me to the conclusion that perhaps you should consider adoption.

<blockquote><b>Quoting K.Lynn09:</b>" Here's what you should do, You have to tell him, he has every right to know you are still pregnant. ... [snip!] ... like a 16 year old on an instant messenger. These fact lead me to the conclusion that perhaps you should consider adoption. "</blockquote>


I agree.

I'd be scared to lie about an abortion, I'd be afraid of the karma.

Tell him to suck it up, as well as you.
Pregnancy is difficult with or without someone. Some days it doesn't matter if you have an army before you, you feel lonely as hell. I really think you should either go through with it, or tell him, and work out adoption. You don't sound ready for a kid.