Massive mom vent

My mother has spent most of my life hating me. She is absolutely insane, and refuses to see it. There have been so many horrible memories I won't get in to. She thinks every other person on the planet is nuts, and she is the only sane person. I was the only one in my family (me, her, dad, brother) who didn't enable all of her delusions. I refused to coddle her. So I of course got rejected by my family for years. Everyone sees her issues, but I'm the massive bitch for not allowing her to be crazy around me and my kids.

This past weekend she decided to take herself to the ER, throw a massive fit, threaten to kill herself, so she could get locked up in the psych ward. She loves being waited on, and have everyone pay attention to her so she can feel important. This was by no means the first time she has done this.

Now, I would feel bad for her, but she refuses to get help. She has these big blow-ups, gets help, gets 'better" and then it all starts over again within a week.

I finally couldn't take her smurf anymore, and moved 2 years ago. Mars wouldn't be far enough, but I had to settle for Arizona (I'm originally from NY). But now here's the big thing that has me so incredibly pissed tonight. I'm so sick of my brother, who never has to deal with her bs, telling me I need to be there for her, and feel sorry for her, and blah blah blah. He is 2 years younger than me, and was always a momma's boy. Still is, he's 23, almost 24, and has never lived on his own. He can't do anything for himself, has failed at everything, amounted to nothing, yet can never do wrong. I used to be incredibly jealous of him, and resented him, but now I'm just aggravated.

I'm so sick of being told what I need to do and how I need to feel. I do not pity her. I do not feel bad for her. I feel like she deserves to be locked up for the rest of her miserable life. This woman has emotionally tortured me for as long as I can remember. I just can't feel sorry for someone who purposely refuses to get help so she can paid attention to...

AAAAAHHHHHHH, ok, vent over.....still kinda wanna stab someone though  

Get bubble wrap and pop the smurf out of it. Always cheers me up.



OT but you live like 1 hour away from me.

Quoting Milk Monster:" Get bubble wrap and pop the smurf out of it. Always cheers me up. OT but you live like 1 hour away from me."

I've noticed! You're in like Glendale, right?

And my DH would probably lock me away with her if I popped bubble wrap. DD annoys the crap outta him with it, hehe

Quoting Rhiannon Deason:" I've noticed! You're in like Glendale, right? And my DH would probably lock me away with her if I popped bubble wrap. DD annoys the crap outta him with it, hehe"

Casa Grande or BFE lol

I stab it. :p I love me some bubble wrap. Makes me feel 12 again!

Quoting Milk Monster:" Casa Grande or BFE lol I stab it. :p I love me some bubble wrap. Makes me feel 12 again!"

oh man...way bumble smurf. I'm in an awful mood though. DH would be very worried if he saw me with something sharp right now, hehe. Just needed to get it all out, ya know?

Quoting Rhiannon Deason:" oh man...way bumble smurf. I'm in an awful mood though. DH would be very worried if he saw me with something sharp right now, hehe. Just needed to get it all out, ya know?"

Yeah, I did it early about DH who is being a butthole because he's having a hard time at work. I hope your momster and brother chill out soon so that there isn't so much drama and you can just relax!

Quoting Milk Monster:" Yeah, I did it early about DH who is being a butthole because he's having a hard time at work. I hope your momster and brother chill out soon so that there isn't so much drama and you can just relax!"

I read your post! I was trying to think of something you could do to him, but I don't think any of it would have made it any better. I think I'm just done talking to all of them for a while. I love my dad, but I really wanna scream at him. He just goes with the flow, and it's not helping anyone.

Quoting Rhiannon Deason:" I read your post! I was trying to think of something you could do to him, but I don't think any of it ... [snip!] ... of them for a while. I love my dad, but I really wanna scream at him. He just goes with the flow, and it's not helping anyone."

He's being all nice today. LOL.

I've had to do that a few times with my family. It helped quite a bit.

Quoting Milk Monster:" He's being all nice today. LOL. I've had to do that a few times with my family. It helped quite a bit."

At least he's being nice!

wow...she got all better just in time for Thanksgiving...AMAZING...

Quoting XavierRose:" wow...she got all better just in time for Thanksgiving...AMAZING..."

Typical! LOL I ended up leaving for the weekend.

Quoting Milk Monster:" Typical! LOL I ended up leaving for the weekend."

good! He sounds like he's in a jerky mood lately. My DH got a mouthful from me the other night because he had a headache. Seriously, it's like the whole world needs to suffer with him. He quickly apologized.

Quoting XavierRose:" good! He sounds like he's in a jerky mood lately. My DH got a mouthful from me the other night because ... [snip!] ... other night because he had a headache. Seriously, it's like the whole world needs to suffer with him. He quickly apologized."

DH still has a stick up his butt! This morning he went to work with no lunch and no lunch money since he was being an ass to me this morning I refused to make him his lunch. If he wanted lunch bad enough he could make it himself. I refuse to go out of my way for him if he's going to be a jerk.

That sounds like my DH! Except it takes mine forever to apologize.