Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I'm going to make a long story short. Yesterday, ... [snip!] ... don't know what to do anymore, my stomach is in smurfing knots."</blockquote> If its smurfing with you that bad leave?"I can't leave, this is my home. And he's already told me before if I want him out (This is not the first marital problem we've had, but it's the first one that has went on this long without my knowledge) then I have to legally evict him and all the money is his.
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I'm going to make a long story short. Yesterday, I found out that DH had installed a smurfing key logger ... [snip!] ... is just smurfing me up in the head, it's smurfing with me bad... I don't know what to do anymore, my stomach is in smurfing knots."
Quoting Samanthaaaa ♥:" Wow thats smurfing nuts. I would be all set with that relationship..."We've had issues with him invading my privacy before. He'd go through my phone, ask who so and so was, why I called them, what we talked about for so long, why I texted so and so so much, etc. He'd go through my facebook, read all of my conversations, but I thought we'd cleared all that smurf up in marriage counseling...
Quoting Captain Obvious:" what do you think he was trying to find out with the key logger?"If I'm guessing the time frame it was installed in correctly, that was back when he had his last affair and you know what they say about a guilty conscious...I can literally sit here and say with pride I've never cheated on him. I literally asked him what I did to deserve this and it started a huge argument.
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I can't leave, this is my home. And he's ... [snip!] ... order. You said you're terrified of him and he is showing his crazy side he wouldn't be allowed at the house with a PO"How quickly would they be able to vacate him from premises with that? And how long would it keep him away from me legally?
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" And single!!!!"
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" How quickly would they be able to vacate ... [snip!] ... in like 3 months. She put the order to include her and their son. They've gone to court a few times and she's renewed the order"Where would I go and what would I do to get one in place?
Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Seriously, this is smurfing crazy. I am so sorry OP. After reading your other responses, he's had an ... [snip!] ... like a disaster. I really hope whatever decision you choose you're happy with it... I can't imagine how you feel right now."It's stressing me all to smurf. I seriously think I have a stomach ulcer between this mess and BD's bullsmurf. I'm surprised my hair hasn't started falling out again. Christ alive...I need this guy out of my house and simultaneously trying to figure out how to pay for my kid's smurf since his father won't pay child support and I'm a full time student with separated SI joints (Makes it hard to walk or stand for long periods). I'll get a part time job if need be, but I don't know who I could get to watch LO and who would do it so that I could afford to pay them on minimum wage...