Quoting dat uterus tho:" My daughter's father is not and she wouldn't have been if she'd been a boy. The one's father is and he will NOT be. Dad wants it though."
We were in that same situation I did not want my Son and his Dad did but he came around. I should find the story... if I can find it I will show you. It is how we learned about is and made our decesion. Because atfirst I wanteded it because I thought that is just what you did. But then I did sone reading and.... well lets just say now I know this is NOT just what you do.
I will look for it maybe it will help in trying to get him to come around