If someone bought something they didn't receive, they should get a refund. Friend on BG or not. I would expect a refund from any seller via Amazon or other online retailer.

Toys for tots!

I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu).

It was CA to US. I paid $30, she paid more to ship. She refunded me like a douche and I don't want her dirty money - thus my suggestion to donate it since she doesn't want it back.

So I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" If someone bought something they didn't receive, they should get a refund. Friend on BG or not. I would expect a refund from any seller via Amazon or other online retailer."</blockquote>




!!!!!

Why should the buyer be out the money? It's the sellers responsibility.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" If they have the receipt that is was shipped then it wasn't their fault. But I am sensing there is more to the story."</blockquote>



I'm sensing there is more too

Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Keep in mind it's been MONTHS and the ... [snip!] ... the decency to ask if you got the package  "</blockquote> Geez the bitterness just oozes out of you doesn't it"

?

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote>




I'm going to slap you with my dirty money.

Quoting CrapBag.:" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."

She gave you a refund like a "douche?"

Quoting SemiCharmed:" What do YOU feel like you should do? Personally...if I knew that the person had really sent it, I would ... [snip!] ... it was indeed shipped? I used to swap letters and various things with a buddy down under and sometimes it would take FOREVER. "

oh yeah, she for sure sent it.
I bet it is just going to take forever to get here.

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" oh yeah, she for sure sent it. I bet it is just going to take forever to get here."</blockquote>



Or come back to me!

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote>



Oh OK. I'm thinking there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it.

Why not just accept the refund and when the lost item arrives send her back the money?

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote> I'm going to slap you with my dirty money."

is it hooker money? because then I do want it.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" She gave you a refund like a "douche?""

yup.

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it."</blockquote>




She's treating me different because we're BFFLs, if it was any other seller she'd take the refund. She shouldn't be out the money because of another country's postal service. It's her money, she got nothing out of the deal.