re: ways to find out if your man is cheating...

Quoting Devil's Advocate:"   We're just now in a good spot financially, we've been married for 7 years! The first few were rough, neither of us were educated and we were both very young."

Thats good that things are good now tho!!   I need to go back to school but BD is making that impossible  

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Thats good that things are good now tho!!   I need to go back to school but BD is making that impossible  "

Ugh, that sucks!

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Ugh, that sucks!"

One day before I pop my first gray hair  

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" One day before I pop my first gray hair  "

 

Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" Or he wants his phone back and thinks you're bat smurf insane. "

 

Uh? I would never violate my fiance's privacy by going through his phone like that. We don't touch each other's phones, we don't read each other's messages. It's called having trust, and if you can't trust him enough to not go through his smurf then why are you with him in the first place?