re: wow.. ive heard of gender disappointment but....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" They don't leave the baby in the womb. They still have to preserve the body, they don't just bury people."</blockquote>




I didn't think they could just not preserve the baby

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" They don't leave the baby in the womb. ... [snip!] ... to preserve the body, they don't just bury people."</blockquote> I didn't think they could just not preserve the baby"

they probably perserve both and take the baby out and maybe either put it in its own coffin or with the mother. thats my guess. hopefully no one ever needs to find out the details in this kind of scenario

I just asked my uncle who is a mortician and he said the children will have to be named and buried separately because they would have been able to survive outside of the womb.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" they probably perserve both and take the baby out and maybe either put it in its own coffin or with ... [snip!] ... its own coffin or with the mother. thats my guess. hopefully no one ever needs to find out the details in this kind of scenario"

I think you're right.

Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I just asked my uncle who is a mortician and he said the children will have to be named and buried separately because they would have been able to survive outside of the womb."

thanks for the info

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" they probably perserve both and take the baby out and maybe either put it in its own coffin or with ... [snip!] ... its own coffin or with the mother. thats my guess. hopefully no one ever needs to find out the details in this kind of scenario"</blockquote>




I would assume this is what they do. I hope not either

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaysay:</b>" Why adopted if they survived? They would of had their father."</blockquote>

Because I'm brain dead and didn't think of that lol. My thought process has been totally out of whack with this pregnancy. Regardless, I wish she got help so her boys could have had a future. Stories like this rip at my heart, poor babies, poor woman, poor family.

Ya call me a heartless bitch, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/

Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Ya call me a heartless bitch, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/"

I'm just wondering have you ever had to deal with depression?

Quoting Meg ♥:" I'm just wondering have you ever had to deal with depression? "

Yes I have and do..You could only imgaine what has gone through my head. I am tired of excuses for women. Its depression or its post partum..Some cases yes, most I am going to say no. If the father had thrown his 2 kids off the cliff then jumped himself, I bet no one would be feeling sorry for him. Like others have said the article really didnt explain much. Maybe she was depressed maybe she just wanted girls so bad and she didnt get her way so she jumped..who knows..her poor children now have no mother..thats what is sad

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Ya call me a heartless bitch, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/"</blockquote>



She was depressed. It states she had a history of depression. Depression makes you do lots of bad things.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only imgaine what has gone through my head. I am tired of excuses for ... [snip!] ... wanted girls so bad and she didnt get her way so she jumped..who knows..her poor children now have no mother..thats what is sad"</blockquote>




Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only ... [snip!] ... what is sad"</blockquote> Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant."

no one who was in " thier right mind" would. she obviusly had problems

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" no one who was in " thier right mind" would. she obviusly had problems"</blockquote>




The poster I quoted said that the woman probably wasnt depressed and only had gender disappointment aka she was in the right mind set to make a decision like this. We dont know but we shouldn't speculate

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only ... [snip!] ... what is sad"</blockquote> Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant."

who in their "right mind" would kill any child? I just get annoyed that "mothers who kill" get sympathy.."fathers who kill" are monsters..they are all monsters!