re: wow.. ive heard of gender disappointment but....

Depression is a sad, horrible, painful disease that is sadly still so misunderstood.

Oh my goodness..
How sad for her boys to be left without their mother...and the little ones that didn't have a chance to be born.

Quoting Just Ames:"   They are exaggerating, IMO and making this a "juicy" story when really, it doesn't need this sort of negative attention. Poor woman."

regardless its sad. 3 people died with 1 persons decision

This could happen to anybody. Your sister, mother, friend, cousin

Anybody could be dissapointed they are having a certain sex, doesnt mean they are going to go jump off a cliff. Clearly she had other issues on top of that. I dont believe having 2 more boys was the reason she jumped off. She was most likely a very troubled lady. That is sad!

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" this may sound morbid, but im curious. if a woman is very pregnant like that an passes.. do you think they take the baby out for the wake to see the baby? or what do you think happens?"

That is pretty morbid. 

I am sure they remove the fetus for it's own autopsy.

that's so sad.. me and SO wanted a girl soooo bad and found out yesterday its a boy! i'm sad hes sad i cried.... and he thinks there's still hope it could be a girl.. but i love this little man just the same and would never take mine and his life because i wished he was a she!

Omg that is the saddest thing in the world.  

She was so far along, even if unwanted by her, I wish those little boys had a chance at life. They were so close to coming into the world, and could have been adopted.

It's sad what depression does to people..

Aw that is so sad.  

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" this may sound morbid, but im curious. if a woman is very pregnant like that an passes.. do you think they take the baby out for the wake to see the baby? or what do you think happens?"

If they found her in time, which doesn't seem like they did... I'll have to re-read. But with a fall like that, I'm assuming they didn't survive the fall either.

Quoting Lexi Rae Tea:" She was so far along, even if unwanted by her, I wish those little boys had a chance at life. They were ... [snip!] ... at life. They were so close to coming into the world, and could have been adopted. It's sad what depression does to people.."

Why adopted if they survived? They would of had their father.

Quoting Kaysay:" If they found her in time, which doesn't seem like they did... I'll have to re-read. But with a fall like that, I'm assuming they didn't survive the fall either."

i figured that, but just a pregnant woman in general. i mean say i pased pregnant, id sorta hope the baby was out and my SO and family could see it too during the funeral. ya know. its smurfed up to think about but im sure it happens.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaysay:</b>" If they found her in time, which doesn't seem like they did... I'll have to re-read. But with a fall like that, I'm assuming they didn't survive the fall either."</blockquote>




She meant what do they do with the babies at the funeral/wake. Do they take them out or leave in their mom

She was in her early twenties when she first started dealing with depression, so it was more than just gender disappointment.