so sat at 4 in the morning i woke up so bc i was going to have a massive gallbladder attack. i knew it and didnt want to be home when it happened. we got to the hospital it takes about 30 min to get there. i have never been there b4 but my mom finally got me on her insurance. they did an ultrasound and admitted me on the spot. the on call surgeon wanted me to have surgery sometime that week but wasnt sure bc he had to talk to the main surgeon who was deer hunting. they said i would find out for sure sunday. i asked my so if he wouldnt tell people about it yet. i have been in an out of the hospital tons and i didnt want to get my hopes up or be stressed out. my inlaws want my daughter and i didnt want them to know my so was alone with our daughter bc my so had enough worry and i didnt want him manipulated by them. i told him he could however call his aunt who lives with them bc she is the only one that hasnt disrespected me or my so. she lied and said she would come play xbox with my so but she doesnt drive alone. my so drove up to meet her at his grandmas house. he had our daughter in his arms and his sister stomped down the hall and slammed the door. basically slamming the door on my daughter. not physically but still pisses me off. his mom said its bc he didnt stand up for his family and leave me when i put my foot down and wouldnt allow them to embarrass me at a public dinner and i took my daughter and left. so my so took our daughter and left. his aunt followed him in her car. so then it comes about that he cant even be there either his mom wants our daughter without either one of us being present. all this is going on while im fasting on painmeds pumping breastmilk in between doses so i felt pain but my milk was clean. anyways fast forward to the next day. his aunt accidently butt dials his grandmas house where, she lives, and his mom listened for she said 11 min about them talking about me having surgery. she flips a lid. while i am in surgery he gets threatening phone calls saying if they ever see me again they were kicking my ass and i was a smurf and made up being sick so i could be lazy. and lots of other things. she demanded her car back and he got messages from his sister saying he was never family and a worthless piece of smurf. he wasnt a real man and he is nothing without his mother. she said the only thing he is good for is all the lavish gifts they give him and me. for his birthday he got a pair of slippers from his mom and 20 bucks. thats totally ok and normal if his sister didnt get a 3500 car 2 birthday parties a graduation party 1700 dollar computer pandora beads a trip to europe and 2k to blow while she was there a cruise 500 dollars inside a coach purse and i could go on for pages. so my mom has been taking my so to work he started getting 9 an hour mon after he graduated his cna class. its not alot of money but its really great for us. we plan on getting a car after we get caught up from him not making lots of money during his class. im recovering pretty good but how do i make my so feel better? we did nothing wrong. they wanted him to leave me and take our daughter for his mom to raise and he didnt allow that.
oh btw they said i made up being sick here is a pic of my gallbladder
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