Quoting Jynxd Blyss:" I guess i'd get annoyed if my SO was always wanting to do something else which had him avoid me, But ... [snip!] ... at least at home, Or close by working on it, And not spending all this time and pubs and clubs drinking with men and women ..."
I don't know if you were trying
to be a bitch, or what.
It's not that I don't want to have sex with him, it physically HURTS me. I can still be intimate with him, without having sex 24/7. But, maybe you're right, maybe he is shunning me because I'm not having sex with him as often as he wants. Maybe, I'm pushing him away. Maybe, he does it to get away from me.
It IS a healthy hobby, YES. It's way better than him going out getting drunk, YES. But not all day long, not every single day. He can't even watch a movie with me, without getting on Ebay looking at car parts.
He is an awesome father. But, when you buy a million different car parts and tools over getting your daughter clothes, toys, and diapers, I think there's a problem.
He will say "oh she doesn't need that" ALL THE TIME. When, she ALWAYS needs diapers. He doesn't need half the smurf he buys.