How do I get SO to

Be more open when it comes to sex? There's so much I like and want to try and although our sex is always good and he always gets me off, we just had a LO and I wanna keep things alive.

I love dirty talk. He doesn't. He is more shy and quiet. Doesn't even like really talking about it at all. He's always been shy when it came to sex. He had only had sex like 5 times before me. I am his first "real girlfriend." I also have a much higher sex drive than him and it gets kind of frustrating sometimes. I just don't want our sex life to fizzle out ever cause he's amazing and the best partner I have ever had. Some tips would be super helpful..

Yep, I'm in the exact same situation, except DH isn't the best sex partner I've ever had so that makes it even more tough. Oh well, he's sweet otherwise I look past it.

Quoting I♡C.:" Yep, I'm in the exact same situation, except DH isn't the best sex partner I've ever had so that makes it even more tough. Oh well, he's sweet otherwise I look past it."

It's soo hard. Cause I love to try new things and be adventurous.  

He's such a sweetheart and the sex is great feels amazing, BUT it'd be nice to change things up sometimes. Only thing I've seen him looking at when it comes to porn is big boobs lol.. I was hoping to find some clues as to what he likes but literally, that's it.

try having him look at lingerie or toys with you online.
get a toy have him watch you play with it and dirty talk to him while you do it.
purchase a karma sutra book. ( try something new, I like to lay upside down on the bed and give so head while he stimulates my clit. its a big turn on and he can see how much it turns me on)
push him aginst the wall and take it??? lol
try little things like ice, or good head lubricants at first.
text him nked pics or dirty texts thorough the day so he kinda knows what you like.

Quoting KyliesMommy2012:" Be more open when it comes to sex? There's so much I like and want to try and although our sex is always ... [snip!] ... our sex life to fizzle out ever cause he's amazing and the best partner I have ever had. Some tips would be super helpful.."

Just start it up ya self is all! Moaning, a bunch of well placed "smurf me", " smurf me harder", "you want to cum in my pussy" might help him open up. Also ask questions in dirty fashions to get him more engaged ;). Tell him to slap your ass, pull your hair etc etc etc.

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Try it!

Someone else posted once, it's a survey of stuff you guys would like to try. You take it separate and it only shows you guys the ones you agree to!!


I'm still working on DH. I've just slowly tried introducing things here and there. He still cringes at the mention of toys for some reason. Thinks he's being replaced as opposed to adding to sex. So for me it's been just a little at a time. Every once in a while asking during sex because most times they aren't turning it down lol