re: Booty Sex

Quoting Whiskey.Tango.Foxtrot.:" Because it hurt but not that bad."

bahahah wait until you poopsie ;)

Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" Use A LOT of lube, RELAX, and try spooning at first. It hurts at first but if you relax, take your time ... [snip!] ... better. If you don't like it and it still hurts after a few times then don't do it. Also, try pooping first if possible lol."

 
And different positions. Doggy style is actually the worst for anal, because of the way your intestine lies, the peen will jab the hell out of it and make it worse.

Quoting It's Delivered:" bahahah wait until you poopsie ;)"

I'm afraid to poopsie  

Quoting Riley+3:"   And different positions. Doggy style is actually the worst for anal, because of the way your intestine lies, the peen will jab the hell out of it and make it worse."

That's probably where I made my mistake.

My bff got hemorrhoids and was in pain and bleeding for like a week after... scared me for life lol

Not relaxing is the biggest thing I notice people fail to do with butt smurfing. It's also why I reccomend you do it a bit drunk or high the first time. Relaxing is KEY to making it feel good. Remember too that your smurf pushes things out all the time, so is more used to having a penis then your vagina is the first time you smurf. Another thing I notice is people don't use enough lube. I mean lube dat smurf up *no pun intended*. Lube all over his cock, inside your smurf, on the outside of your smurf, and then more for extra mesaure. Start OFF slowwwwww, and then work up the pace. Also lastly, use something back there for a few weeks first to get use to the idea of entry, fingers, sharpie, dildo etc.

Quoting Whiskey.Tango.Foxtrot.:" That's probably where I made my mistake."

First time yes, it's better to do it missionary or on top rather then doggy. After a few times you can though.

Ouch  

You're going to be sore for a few days, no doubt about it. IF you try it again, make sure you wait a while....being nervous or having a previous bad experience can make butt sex really bad. You probably didn't use enough lube, or he was too rough...It could've been that you weren't "ready" enough to take it, if you're not excited enough, it can be really uncomfortable. Also, some women NEED to take it slow- and NEED to be stretched for weeks or months before they're ready to take the guy themselves.

I love it though...for some reason it's never hurt me. The first time I loved it- but I was a bit sore for a couple days. Once in a while it can be a tad uncomfortable, and if you feel any "abnormal" discomfort (you know, past the initial stretching), you need more lube! You can never have too much lube! LOL

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" First time yes, it's better to do it missionary or on top rather then doggy. After a few times you can though."

Strange...It's actually uncomfortable for me on top or in missionary- doggy is the most comfortable.

Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:" Strange...It's actually uncomfortable for me on top or in missionary- doggy is the most comfortable. "

It really depends on the person really  . I love butt sex doggy style myself, but I most people I talk to tend to enjoy the other 2 more.

Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:" Ouch   You're going to be sore for a few days, no doubt about it. IF you try it again, make sure ... [snip!] ... any "abnormal" discomfort (you know, past the initial stretching), you need more lube! You can never have too much lube! LOL "

I liked it my first time as well  . I think the key was I had not ever mentioned the idea to anyone, so had no preconceived notion it could hurt.

I =Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I liked it my first time as well  . I think the key was I had not ever mentioned the idea to anyone, so had no preconceived notion it could hurt. "

I think that makes a big difference lol if You don't think about it negatively beforehand, it CAN be a lot easier. The mind can be a serious hindrance with this stuff. It was kindof unexpected for me- We'd talked about it a little in the past, and one day it just happened, and I didn't have time to mull it over in my brain beforehand and come up with bad excuses lol, so I enjoyed it a lot, probably because my brain was free from any bullcorn! ha!  

Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:" I think that makes a big difference lol if You don't think about it negatively beforehand, it CAN be ... [snip!] ... and come up with bad excuses lol, so I enjoyed it a lot, probably because my brain was free from any bullcorn! ha!  "

Yes  . I didn't know about people thinking it would hurt until my friends talked about it in high school.