any guys on here?

wondering if there r any guys on here?

There are a few but mostly women.

This isn't a dating site  

eta: lmao, thought it was a girl before I looked at the profile. hahahaha

I know there are a few. But it's mostly women.

Ugh I don't think there are too many guys on a pregnancy and baby website. Sorry.

Quoting sooletsunwind:" This isn't a dating site  "

I'm sure he's not gay  

There are a few. I had a guy message me and talk to me about things. He's older and married and has 2 or 3 kids. He was helpful with talking to me about things. Would you like his username? Maybe he could help you.

I think there might be a few but it's mainly women

k just wondering

only guy i know with a kid hates it and i need to figure some smurf out

Quoting Tay L:" There are a few. I had a guy message me and talk to me about things. He's older and married and has ... [snip!] ... and has 2 or 3 kids. He was helpful with talking to me about things. Would you like his username? Maybe he could help you."

sure thanks

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" k just wondering only guy i know with a kid hates it and i need to figure some smurf out"</blockquote>




Best of luck. I hope you can find the advice and support you're looking for.

His username is ocelot. You should send him a message. He might be able to help you.  

Quoting MX23:" k just wondering only guy i know with a kid hates it and i need to figure some smurf out"

whats the problem?

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" whats the problem?"

He needs to hear from a guy's perspective that if his girlfriends keep the baby, things will be okay. He needs advice from a mature man about being a father.

I wish you luck OP! If this helps you, I just had my son 3 months ago and when my SO and I first found out (I'm 23 and SO's 24)...my SO wanted an abortion. He was so pissed at me and even though he said he wouldn't leave me either way, it made me doubt what I wanted to do and our relationship. I can tell you it is very scarey on both sides, doesn't matter what age. My parents told me that no one is ever or will be ready to have a baby, it just happens. Trying to conceive later when you're older is usually harder because of stress and makes it hard to get pregnant. That's another chance she takes is risking her not being able to have children at all, and to someone who has already wanted to be a mother it means alot. I was unsure at first but once I made up my mind, he had no choice. I asked him if he really loved me and wanted to be with me forever like he's said, he said yes and I said then I'm keeping this baby. We've had our ups and downs but we made this commitment together to stick it out with each other. He is my best friend, friends aren't worth smurf when you get older and you'll realize that more over the years unless you have some badass awesome friends lol. I'm just saying that you have to take the good with the bad, having a child is hard sometimes but it is so worth it, I promise. You have no idea how much my son has changed not only my SO and myself but everyone else around else. Everyone is so happy having him in their lives, its amazing. I never imagined it would be this great.

One last thing- I also had an abortion when I was 17 with my ex of 5 years and I resented him and my mother for the longest time for making me do it, I had regret, depression, it changed me. BUT I know that if I really didn't want to do it then I wouldn't have. You guys just need to consider each other's feelings and start thinking about the future. You can still have friends, and go out but yes your life will change. Ya never know, you might like who your child makes you become.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" He needs to hear from a guy's perspective that if his girlfriends keep the baby, things will be okay. ... [snip!] ... have friends, and go out but yes your life will change. Ya never know, you might like who your child makes you become.  "</blockquote>




Ohh okay. Best of luck to you OP. If you really need some dads to talk to you who were in yournshoes at one point i can give an email address. Good luck