Quoting MX23:" thanks i talked to a conselor today (no jokes i got enough from my friends) and it helped so much ... [snip!] ... about this. still scared and a little unsure but i think ill feel much better after i talk to my gf and him a few more times."
its always scary! i just found out im expecting number 4 and it never gets easier. lol i got pregnant at 18, and even though i wish it would have been later in my life, i wouldnt change anything. GOOD LUCK. im happy that your doing this for you and your GF. its really good.