Quoting waitingimpatiently.:" He's had his chance, know don't lose your chance to be happy. If he was going to change he would have ... [snip!] ... the first incident. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results. - Albert Enstien."
So very true!! Im to that point of feeling overly insane! To love someone so much your willing to forgive them for everything yet to them they dont even realize what pain and hurt they caused to begin with ... Its sad , a horrible feeling! An the worst part is to have my children in the middle of it! My 3yr old this past week while there father visited had a hyper ventilating attack one evening in mid sleep that mommy and daddy didnt love eachother anymore so we didnt love her and it was all her fault ... Thats the worst part to me! I hate to admit to I have put her in therapy to help cope with the emotions she is going through with all the seperation, physical and verbal abuse she has witnessed etc ... my son doesnt really ever remember a mommy and daddy together since he was only 4 months old the first time we split ... and with my new son on the way I dont want him to know the on again off again at all ... So THANK YOU ladies for some RATIONAL non pregnant hormonal advice!! An to remind me to just keep going as I am raising my babies the best on my own ... and praying he realizes all he is missing as a here n there father!