Quoting regina_margot:" maybe have your fiance talk to her? figure out why those particular pants? maybe she can't afford something ... [snip!] ... she wants, which is for you to be miserable or you can realize that SHE's the one who'll look like smurf, and not worry about it"
Well, she hasn't been involved in the wedding planning, she doesn't care to ask, doesn't care to help.
I think the black is what bothers me the most, because I always taught never wear black to a wedding
So personally, I just think she can't be bothered to get something nice.
I don't think I'll say anything.. I'll just make sure she's not in a lot of bridal pictures