Feel Guilty After Sex

Hi Im 19Years Old I Have Or Had Such An Awesome Guy Friend Who Always wanted to date me since i was 16 i was always such a stuck up person to him and yesterday he tried kissing me as always i refused then he did it again so i went along with it and then when we were about to have sex i felt weird i havent had sex in 2 years and i liked it but then it felt weird so i told him to stop but now i feel guilty and confused we where friends how did I dare to kiss him now i dont know what to do or how i feel i loved being by his side then again i know its not going to happen he has a gf he confesses to me all the time that he likes me and always liked me so should i forget it all happend or stop communicating? we had unprotected sex hardly any sex so i doubt any pregnancy even though he said he wouldnt mind having a baby with me and stuff and i know theres no way i had just started my menstrual so gross

He sounds like a giant douchebag and you don't sound much better knowing he had a girlfriend and all.

Who the smurf cares if he's ok with you getting pregnant!! You are 19, do YOU want a SECOND baby right now? And especially with a guy you are not even dating?! Stop having unprotected sex, and unless you want your relationship with him to go somewhere, stop sleeping with him. Actually, have more respect for yourself, if he isn't single and wantIng to only be with you, stop smurfing him. If he won't just let it go, then cut him out entirely.

Eta: grow up and take responsibility for your own sexual health. And stop sleeping with unavailable men.

....I'm gonna label this "drama"....

If OP is a real person, I fear for humanity. This generation cannot ALL be this... Sorry, but, THIS STUPID. In this day and age, who the hell doesn't use protection?! IT'S FREE AT PLANNED PARENTHOOD. Even if you are unemployed and underage, PPH will give you condoms and/or offer to screen you to get bc pills! So, stop effing around (literally with him, and figuratively about if you want to be with him or not), get your butt on a bus or something, and go get Plan B at PPH, to start. Next, get a fistful of condoms to have just in case you decide to have sex (with anyone). Never hurts to be prepared. Last, but not even close to least, sit down and really think about where you want your life to go from her. With or without that guy.

Stop feeling guilty and throwing yourself an online pity-party and go get the care you need. Because yes, you CAN get pregnant from "a little bit" of sex, even if you're bleeding (which, by the way, isn't necessarily your period. Some women bleed throughout their whole pregnancies, every month. It's about how/where the embryo implanted, IF there is one).

I am whole-heartedly with MommaSav2 on this. Stop being immature and irresponsible. Grow the hell up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Satin&Roses +1:</b>" ....I'm gonna label this "drama".... If OP is a real person, I fear for humanity. This generation cannot ... [snip!] ... IF there is one). I am whole-heartedly with MommaSav2 on this. Stop being immature and irresponsible. Grow the hell up."</blockquote>


I will NEVER understand that mentality of "he didn't wear a condom but he said its ok if I get pregnant". I just can't stand the posts like this. I have been married for three years, with my husband for 7 1/2 and I'm pregnant with number three, and I still say that if I don't want to be pregnant, it is MY job to take my pill. Wether my husband is "ok" with another pregnancy or not. It's my body, my uterus, my sexual health, MY REAPONSIBILITY. Period.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Satin&Roses +1:</b>" ....I'm gonna label this "drama".... If ... [snip!] ... Wether my husband is "ok" with another pregnancy or not. It's my body, my uterus, my sexual health, MY REAPONSIBILITY. Period."

EXACTLY. Posts like this piss me the smurf off. I can't even count how many times I stressed the "take responsibility for your own bodies" thing to my siblings (who I helped raise as my parents both worked two jobs). My brother knows all about women's "plumbing" and why it's EXTREMELY IMPORTANT for him to wear a condom every single time. My sister knows all about her own reproductive system and has enough knowledge of a guy's anatomy to pass a test, and she asked for (and received) bc pills at 16. They both know my slogan is, "Trust me baby' is NOT a viable form of birth control." They're both graduated now, and kid and disease-free.

It barely takes two brain cells to get condoms, but it sure as smurf takes only two reproductive cells to make a baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Satin&Roses +1:</b>" EXACTLY. Posts like this piss me the smurf off. I can't even count how many times I stressed the "take ... [snip!] ... It barely takes two brain cells to get condoms, but it sure as smurf takes only two reproductive cells to make a baby."</blockquote>



I got pregnant with my first at 19, thankfull it worked out with his dad who is now my wonderfully supportive and motivated husband but that is not the normal outcome for a "teen pregnancy". So I always tell my little brothers "it's takes two people to have an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy, but it only takes one person to prevent it. Wrap it up". They are now 23 and 25 and disease and baby free.

I think you should look into getting your tubes tied, because you obviously are not learning smurf.