Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Well if you knew how to read you would ... [snip!] ... You know what you just offended every SAHM out there. Dumbass. Sometimes you don't have a damn choice to stay at home. Idiot"

I dont care you offended me, by calling me a SAHM.

No choice for what reasons? People whine to much about not being able to afford stuff but are SAHM, with there only income being assistance, hey if being single and living off of assistance and being a SAHM is a good thing then whatever.

Sure 2 parent house holds that can afford a parent to stay home then sobeit, but a single parent house hold and being a sahp is just lazy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" I dont care you offended me, by calling me a SAHM. No choice for what reasons? People whine to much ... [snip!] ... house holds that can afford a parent to stay home then sobeit, but a single parent house hold and being a sahp is just lazy."</blockquote>



Smurf you

Guess what I am on smurfing disability after bein unable to handle a job due to mental illness. And before you say anything it isn't just anxiety or depression even though I have both of those. I've been in the hospital multiple times for horrible things. So before you run your mouth figure it out. If I could work I would.

Like I said dumbass and idiot

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" I dont care you offended me, by calling ... [snip!] ... a job due to mental illness. And before you say anything it isn't just anxiety or depression even though I have both of those."

And disibility has nothing to do with being a sahm.

I suffer from anxitey and depression was diagnosed and medicated at the age of 12.
I know tons of parents on disibility, be unable to work is nothing comapred to just not working cause well you dont want to work. Relax. Like I said learn to read. Dont get your panties in a bunch.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" And disibility has nothing to do with being a sahm. I suffer from anxitey and depression was diagnosed ... [snip!] ... to just not working cause well you dont want to work. Relax. Like I said lern to read. Dont get your panties in a bunch."</blockquote>




But you called me lazy because I'm single and a SAHM. That's where I got offended. Ive medicated since 12 also but for other reasons as well.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" And disibility has nothing to do with ... [snip!] ... me lazy because I'm single and a SAHM. That's where I got offended. Ive medicated since 12 also but for other reasons as well."

Um ok whatever chill relax.

Freaking out over things that you never stated and are not obvious, well dont get all worked up about it!

Yes I think single welafre SAHM mom are 100% lazy. Not being mentally or physically capable to work is 100% different.

Then sitting at home all day doing absolutly nothing but getting free money from the Government.

You wanted to judge me for letting my LEGALLY allowed 10 yr old dd watch her 4 year old sister and point fingers etc.....and question what would a sahm need to be gone for 5 hours at a day etc.....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Um ok whatever chill relax. Freaking out over things that you never stated and are not obvious, well ... [snip!] ... 4 year old sister and point fingers etc.....and question what would a sahm need to be gone for 5 hours at a day etc..... "</blockquote>




I dont hide my illness. But it isn't obvious I understand.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Um ok whatever chill relax. Freaking ... [snip!] ... be gone for 5 hours at a day etc..... "</blockquote> I dont hide my illness. But it isn't obvious I understand."

I get super bitchy when people judge me over the allowence I let my kids do and handle, and I know I have strong opinons about certain things and a sahp is one of them, when government funds is the sole income.

i dont mean to offend you in anyway. I used to be unable to physically and mentaly not work, but about 10 years ago when I had my oldest I had no choice but to do it, since I didnt want Government assistance.


When I get mad and bitchey on here somedays I say alot of stuff without in between thinking and fully thought out sentences to widen the conversation to every aspect of its full capacity of areas. Ykwim right? Leaving the inbetween lines open for any other opertunity?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" I get super bitchy when people judge me over the allowence I let my kids do and handle, and I know ... [snip!] ... to every aspect of its full capacity of areas. Ykwim right? Leaving the inbetween lines open for any other opertunity? "</blockquote>




I understand.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Well if you knew how to read you would know I was on leave from a real job, not a sit on your ass at home all day job. Bringing in no income to contribute to a house hold."</blockquote>




Are you serious? Now you talking smurf about her omg what makes you think her a sahm sits on her ass all day? Now you are sounding like a little bitch.Calm down and dont feel that everyone is jumping your ass for you to act all defensive and smurf. Smurf!

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Well if you knew how to read you would ... [snip!] ... like a little bitch.Calm down and dont feel that everyone is jumping your ass for you to act all defensive and smurf. Smurf!"

Calm down, and go re-read our posts please. Had nothing to do with you. We are good and fine, Relax.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Um ok whatever chill relax. Freaking out over things that you never stated and are not obvious, well ... [snip!] ... 4 year old sister and point fingers etc.....and question what would a sahm need to be gone for 5 hours at a day etc..... "</blockquote>




Let your child be a child and not play the second mommy roll. Is not about judging but more trying to understand. Of course she is going to be happy because she is doing you a favor and to top you paying her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Calm down, and go re-read our posts please. Had nothing to do with you. We are good and fine, Relax."</blockquote>




I am fine too thank you. Maybe you need to think before you write. I know it didnt had to do with me but it ticks me off when people like you put others down. The one who is judging is you!

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Um ok whatever chill relax. Freaking ... [snip!] ... but more trying to understand. Of course she is going to be happy because she is doing you a favor and to top you paying her."

Again you dont know my child who begs to stay home with her so um your post is invalid. Not doing me a favour at all. I would rather them all come with me, cause its the same evry weekend after I shop "mom you didnt by anything good" then I tell her if she came she could have picked out whatever she wanted for her school lunches. So dont try the second mommy roll with me.

Oh no 1 day a week I go shopping and my 4 and 10 yr old stay home oh no, I am making my dd a salve. lol Dont make me laugh.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Again you dont know my child who begs to stay home with her so um your post is invalid. Not doing ... [snip!] ... Oh no 1 day a week I go shopping and my 4 and 10 yr old stay home oh no, I am making my dd a salve. lol Dont make me laugh."</blockquote>




Omg lmao  you obviously know is wrong for you to act all defensive.

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom Of 3 Girls.:</b>" Calm down, and go re-read our posts ... [snip!] ... I know it didnt had to do with me but it ticks me off when people like you put others down. The one who is judging is you!"

No she started it by judging me claiming I was a sahm. I knew she was, but I didnt know she was a singl mom and on disibility now did I ?

I still stand for what I believe in that no parent should be a sahp when they are single and getting government assistance. People dont like to get judged back now do they????

Goes both ways.