Quoting Stinky Face's Mommy:" I was always told if you have to hide it from your spouse or SO you've already had an emotional affair. Sorry but just from what you posted there were red flags for me. "
Quoting Mychildrenarecute:" In April we were apart for 2 weeks (broken up) and they had been talking about sex and hanging out again. ... [snip!] ... conversation and he has been texting her for hours and claims it was nothing. He was texting her at times when he was working."
Quoting Mychildrenarecute:" I honestly think he has considered it but not sure he has yet"
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Does it even matter? If I ever found out my SO was talking to another girl about sex even if we were ... [snip!] ... on end when we got back together, and hid it and lied about it, I'd be GONE. Planning to do it is just as bad as doing it!"