Boyfriend problems

Hi all please don't judge me i had enough to with my boyfriend today don't need anymore nasty people!!!
My partner & i been together for 5 years and since been with him i lost all my friends...I gave birth 8 months ago and since had postnatal depression i have tried to cope with it with pills etc i don't know why i feel why i do get angry for no reason,cry every day etc... then today my boyfriend said i was retarded a fat useless mole i am loser that has no friends...!! he tried to hit me the the tv remote that the first time he tried ever hit me freaked me out, i blame him making me feel this way tho i don't blame our son ...he spends 80% at work then comes home stays in shed smoking drinking i have ask him play with his son or attention kiss or even simple hug from him...I wanna move out but i have never lived on my own before i think how i am i gonna pay bills earn $$ being single mum Australia prices through the roof atm and being single mum is bloody will be tough i am so so scared to live on my own & not to mention he threaten he will take me to court to take my son away if i move out saying i am mental which i would never ever hurt my son i love him so so much he the only one keeps me here ..

Go to your doctor and tell them the pills aren't working also ask to talk to someone like a counselor. Apply for assistance or whatever programs are available to you hell if you have friends or family that will take you in go there. Find a job and leave the bastard.

If he hit you I would report it and have you tried looking into women shelters? I know its not ideal, but that way you could get on your feet and away from that.
No one deserves to be treated like that

My god, get all this smurf documented and leave. Go to a shelter if you have to. Get on your feet, and take him to court ASAP. But GET OUT NOW. You and your child do not need to deal with this.

Quoting Jennybananna:" Go to your doctor and tell them the pills aren't working also ask to talk to someone like a counselor. ... [snip!] ... are available to you hell if you have friends or family that will take you in go there. Find a job and leave the bastard."

Find work & put son in dare care do you know prices here in Australia
1 week work will not cover rent or dare care   & i don't talk with my dad or mum now because boyfriend has pushed them outer my life... have not spoken to my parents for 2 years.. i have no family support or friends he pushed everyone outer my life

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucy Barlow:</b>" Find work & put son in dare care do you know prices here in Australia 1 week work will not cover ... [snip!] ... my life... have not spoken to my parents for 2 years.. i have no family support or friends he pushed everyone outer my life"</blockquote>




Time to call them. We have programs out here that will assit you with rent and day care do you have anything like that out there? Trustme I get expensive.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucy Barlow:</b>" Find work & put son in dare care do you know prices here in Australia 1 week work will not cover ... [snip!] ... my life... have not spoken to my parents for 2 years.. i have no family support or friends he pushed everyone outer my life"</blockquote>


If you are a single mum & working, you'll qualify for a lot of help with Childcare. You'll get rent assistance as well as a single parent payment to supplement income until you get on your feet, get a job etc. You could also put your name down at the housing department for emergency housing, since you and your child are in a dangerous situation.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucy Barlow:</b>" Find work & put son in dare care do you know prices here in Australia 1 week work will not cover ... [snip!] ... my life... have not spoken to my parents for 2 years.. i have no family support or friends he pushed everyone outer my life"</blockquote>


Also, put the past in the past & make contact with your family. I'm sure they'd appreciate knowing you and your son are okay.

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lucy Barlow:</b>" Find work & put son in dare care do ... [snip!] ... Also, put the past in the past & make contact with your family. I'm sure they'd appreciate knowing you and your son are okay."

Never new that about child care payment help thanks.. will def have talk to centerlink then tomorrow about payment help

Quoting Lucy Barlow:" Find work & put son in dare care do you know prices here in Australia 1 week work will not cover ... [snip!] ... my life... have not spoken to my parents for 2 years.. i have no family support or friends he pushed everyone outer my life"

i live in aus too and there are plenty of places to go first off you need to go to centerlink and tell them whats going on them go down to your local savation army place they will help you find accomadation asap centerlink can also help with pointing you in the right direction let me know how you go

Quoting Sarah-louise Powell:" i live in aus too and there are plenty of places to go first off you need to go to centerlink and tell ... [snip!] ... will help you find accomadation asap centerlink can also help with pointing you in the right direction let me know how you go "

How does the salvos help? get i get more info because first i heard salvos help i only know they sell/giveaway clothes lol & def will

Quoting Lucy Barlow:" How does the salvos help? get i get more info because first i heard salvos help i only know they sell/giveaway clothes lol & def will "

they can help u get in to accommodation but you have to go to one of there main offices if you look it up on google it will help you too but i will have a look around and ask as my sister had them help her get in to emergency accommodation

where in Aus are you