Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Also if anyone has bee molested or abused, this can affect your enjoyment or even desire to have sex. You have to work through that first before your body will respond to it in a positive way."

Quoting A.Ramirez's Mommy:" this must be why I hate it"

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" It can be. Key is getting it out there and working past it. Once you get there in your life your mine will stop making your body hate it."

Quoting A.Ramirez's Mommy:" recently ive been comfortable about it. like thinking about it made me sick but now it doesn't"

It takes time, you have gotten past the first step, and over time you will get over more *hugs*