|I'm the same way!|
|Oh, NO. I love me some sex|
|I am a virgin!|
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" I hate vaginal sex ... as in hate it. Its either super painful or just numb. I love everything else but ... [snip!] ... everything else but the moment he tries to stick that thing in me I'm just 'hurry up and finish'. I've always been like this."
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I would talk to your doctor then. There is an issue in which women have a flab of skin in the vagina that has to be removed to ensure good sex."
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" up until recently it was my deprssion/anxiety and then the medications I was on for it that caused issues. ... [snip!] ... degree tears I had when I had DS. I'm actually ok with not being able to have vaginal sex ... its not the b-all and end all."
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Does it not feel good at all?"It takes a lot and I mean a lot for it to actually feel good, I end up just feeling so disgusted I was not like this before
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Also if anyone has bee molested or abused, this can affect your enjoyment or even desire to have sex. You have to work through that first before your body will respond to it in a positive way."
Quoting Anthony's Mommy :" It takes a lot and I mean a lot for it to actually feel good, I end up just feeling so disgusted I was not like this before "Before you gave birth you mean? With the same guy or someone new?
Quoting J+D=4:" Hubby thinks that's my issue as well..."
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You should find someone or a group or people to talk to. Letting it out will begin the healing process. Otherwise it festers and comes out in a variety of ways."
Quoting J+D=4:" yeah hubby didn't know anything til we had been together 5 years. we dont talk about it anymore. a lot of anxiety was lifted when I finally told him."*hugs*
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" *hugs*"