re: 16 & pregnant again

It's irresponsible to get pregnant again.... Didnt' learn the first time eh?

Pretty irresponsible...Simply from having children so young. I mean...After your first, you should have realized that you are fertile and you CAN get pregnant. The responsible thing to do would have been to get on a reliable form of birth control and stick to it.

But...If you're taking care of yourself and your kids, I guess no one can really say much. Just.....I hope you make smarter decisions in the future.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" Exactly. It's not even legal for a minor to work that many hours. There are child labor laws."</blockquote>




Gotta love the BS.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Natasha Thompson-King:</b>" Im 16 and currently 10 weeks pregnant with my second child. I had my first daugther when i was 16 but ... [snip!] ... my school work done and i fully support my daughter and have been saving up (currently $900) for an apartment when i turn 18."</blockquote>



IMO yes you are, simply because you've created a hard life for yourself (and presumably your parents) and now with a second you've created a harder life for your already born child.

It didn't need to be like this. Getting everything in order education wise is admirable but life is so much more than that. Especially for you, you're going to miss out on so much.

Why do you need validation from us? You got yourself in this situation. This is all on you. Our opinions mean smurf.

Quoting ma ♥:" Yes it was very irresponsible to get pregnant again at such a young age. But I'm just curious.. where do you work that you work 60 hrs a week AND are in school full time?"

Duh she works 30-hour days on the weekends.  

Okay, theres no other way to say this without sounding rude but... WTF were you thinking?? 2 children by 16? Wow....just wow. Good luck dude.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Exactly. It's not even legal for a minor to work that many hours. There are child labor laws."

Yeah, I didn't even think of that... I mean, I work 36hrs one week & 44hrs the next week (9/80 schedule).... & I am EXHAUSTED by the time I'm of work (not to mention I have a very stressful, demanding job)

I don't get how she can work 60hrs a week.. How is that even possible..?

And now that i read the responses, how the hell can u work 60 hours a week and go to school n take care of ur kid? Somethins not right here

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" 2 kids at 16?? It doesn't get any more irresponsible then that. lol"

   
lmao, seriously.

Quoting [[Breezy]]:" Duh she works 30-hour days on the weekends.  "

This made me chuckle.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Natasha Thompson-King:</b>" Im 16 and currently 10 weeks pregnant with my second child. I had my first daugther when i was 16 but ... [snip!] ... my school work done and i fully support my daughter and have been saving up (currently $900) for an apartment when i turn 18."</blockquote>




Also, you don't "fully" support anything if you don't have your own place yet.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" Yes, you are irresponsible because you weren't smart enough to learn from your mistake the first time ... [snip!] ... have will suffer even more because you were a dumb smurf and your parents will now have to help support you and TWO babies."</blockquote>




This!!!!
It's called condoms and/or birth control.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" You sounds responsible enough. I think it was incredibly irresponsible of you to get pregnant again tho."

  


From what you have provided here, you seem to be responsible in taking care of school and work. Although myself being a mother of two and going to school full time, volunteering, it's a hard task...I don't see how you can work 60 hours a week, school work, and take care of a child.

I mean, I know here in NC there are laws against teenagers working past certain hours on school nights, but it could be different where you live. So it would be impossible for someone to work that much here and be a full time student in high school.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Exactly. It's not even legal for a minor to work that many hours. There are child labor laws."

That is EXACTLY what I was thinking haha.