excuse typos. Im on a phone,


DD isnt Mikes ( my SO's) daughter. Her father is a drug dealing crack head ( i had issues in the past) who is in and out of prison and isnt in her life at all. Mike lost his son, and has pretty much picked up daddy role for my daughter. hes been with us every single day since she was about 4 months old and shes 13 months now.

But anyways. His ex kristin. They dated for 4 years prior. They were already broken up for awhile when me and him got together. Needless to say- Kristin hates me. Shes ALWAYS trying to sabotage me and mikes relationship. She told mikes family i used to be stripper and now they all hate me. SHe literally called them up and told them. for no other reason then to make them hate me. Several people have told me she is CONSTANTLY talking smurf about me. ABout me being a single mom. Being an ex stripper. Telling mike ( iv seen the texts and messages) That she wants him back and he shouldnt be with a "dumb stupid slut" like me. Basically- shes a crazy bitch.


Well, mike told me he quit talking to her because " He respected me and didnt want to be friends with someone who treated and talked about me so poorly"... ANyways- i have a verizon plan. His sprint phone plan was up. He didnt want to join my plan because he wanted to keep his sprint phone. He said he asked his dad to add him to his plan so it would be cheaper, and he agreed. I didnt think twice about it. About two months went by and i thought nothing of it. They i went to my moms and he called my parents home phone and the caller ID said smurfing kristin.

COme to find out- she added him to her phone- not his dad. They text, talk, and hangout on a regular basis. WHile they do this- he tells me hes working, at a meeting, etc.
He says its completely innocent, and i have no reason to be pissed.



I would also like to add he doesnt work and i support him.

He says he hangs out with her since " thats the least he can do for her adding him to her phone plan". ANd he does admit when they hangout she does spend the large majority of the time talking smurf about me, ANd like iv said iv seen the texts of her says she wants to be back with him and blah blah blah.



Yould you put up with this? or am i wrong for being upset?

Dude,he's taking advantage of you...and playing you real good.

dump him,,,,,

smurf that. He's being sneaky as hell about it and I deff wouldn't put up with it, nor would I trust her ass.

Wait.... He says he's working but doesn't work??

Id leave him.

Uh yeah no, dump his ass!

Um NO, HELLLL NO! lol I'm sorry but that sounds INSANE!

Smurf no! Get out of that mess

Smurf that. Drop his ass. he's going behind your back. Don't support a piece of smurf

If it is so innocent why does he feel the need to HIDE it?   No I wouldn't put up with that.

You're being played, hunny...time to move on.

Oh HELL no. Smurf that! Exes are meant to stay exes for a reason. Who knows what they've been doing behind your back.  

So why did you even believe that he was "working" and in meetings I'd he doesn't work and you support him?
Dump him, he's cheating. Even though he has been there for Dd, he is not her dad and as time goes on she won't even remember him.

Of course he says it's completely innocent.
I'd assume he's cheating... if nothing else he is lying big time and that's not ok.
Her hate could be coming from the fact that she's "the other woman".
I would run away as fast as I could.

Oh HELL NO.
1. If its not anything for you to worry about, why is he hiding it and lying about it?
2. Why does he need to be on her phone plan if you offered to have him on your's? (That's what I gathered at least)
3. Someone needs to be kicked to the curb. It's unfortunate for your daughter, but he's a leech and absolutely no good.