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Ummm well I go through this at least once a month and DH does push it a lot and tells me to just take one for the team which sometimes I do, but if he SERIOUSLY asked to have a sex partner like he wasn't joking he would never be getting sex from me again.......

Quoting Live Love Laugh ♥:" So we haven't had sex in a while cause I have no sex drive. I don't even like him touching or kissing ... [snip!] ... day? Told you to just take one for the team? And then asked if he would be able to have a sex partner but still be with you?"

Id be offended and hurt that he would ask to have a sex partner....but as for sex WITH him, I'd try to figure out whats killing my libido.

Quoting Live Love Laugh ♥:" So we haven't had sex in a while cause I have no sex drive. I don't even like him touching or kissing ... [snip!] ... day? Told you to just take one for the team? And then asked if he would be able to have a sex partner but still be with you?"

i would probably just laugh in his face. this sounds funny to me.

but.... i would also be worried about why my sex drive is so low, or nonexistent. do you have any idea why? is this normal for you or not?

I would be very frustrated if my partner never wanted me to have sex with them let alone look at them.. Reverse the roles.
If I wasn't giving my husband anything I would expect him to get it elsewhere..

Quoting Live Love Laugh ♥:" So we haven't had sex in a while cause I have no sex drive. I don't even like him touching or kissing ... [snip!] ... day? Told you to just take one for the team? And then asked if he would be able to have a sex partner but still be with you?"

Those things would bother me, but at the same time I wouldn't ever hide behind "I just have no sex drive." As in, have you tried to work on it? It is due to medication? Have you had therapy? There are a lot of options, and if my partner just threw their hands up and said "No sex drive, sorry" I think I'd be pretty hurt taht they didn't even try and fix it.

So, while I think him pushing isn't right, neither is ignoring a huge part of a healthy relationship.

I've lost my sex drive, but it's not fair IMO to keep it from DH. We don't have sex every night but I do try to keep him satisfied. However, if he asked to have a partner, I'm afraid I'd have to cockpunch him

Once your egg passes the "i cant get fertilized" stage whether its your period or youre pregnant- your brain no longer needs the man to fertilize you,. and you kind of unconsciously start distancing yourself from him because you have no use for him. Maybe thats what you're going though?

Same situation right here except for the last one. (He hasn't asked but I told him to go find someone)

I think it has a lot to do with the problems we had last year, and I'm totally disconnected now. But I do like twice a month just to please him. I don't enjoy it at all.

Quoting i ♥ nora:" Once your egg passes the "i cant get fertilized" stage whether its your period or youre pregnant- your ... [snip!] ... kind of unconsciously start distancing yourself from him because you have no use for him. Maybe thats what you're going though?"

This is exactly what I go through 

how long has it been since sex?

Quoting Julie&Collin:" This is exactly what I go through "

Me too. My sister explained it to me when I was pregnant and was trying my hardest to make BD leave me alone for good. Shes like "you want him, your body doesnt. youll sort it out!" She was right! LOL. Now, about two weeks before AF i am a horny raging lunatic who would hump the couch for satisfaction, and acceptably distant afterwards.  

Sex partner? hell no, that smurf wouldn't fly with me.

Quoting GL♣05/08/2013:" I would be very frustrated if my partner never wanted me to have sex with them let alone look at them.. ... [snip!] ... let alone look at them.. Reverse the roles. If I wasn't giving my husband anything I would expect him to get it elsewhere.."

Ahem....that's a pretty dumb mind set. Cheating isn't okay. Period.

OP, I would try to figure out what is up with your body. Crap happens, hormones get wonky but intimacy is important in a relationship. If DH bothered me all of the time for sex, it'd be annoying but it'd be expected as well. He's a man. Now, IF my DH seriously wanted another sex partner....he'd have to run and hide