chick is pregnent and i dont want it
posted 18th Nov
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i really need help
ive been with my chick for like 2 years now and now she is pregnent and i dont know what to do cuz she wants it and i dont
i dont think its fair that i dont get any say. is it legal for her to keep it without me wanting it? i think both should decide.
i told her if she keeps it i will dump her. she got pissed off and we had a big fight about that with her saying she would make me pay her forever if i did that.
i will stay with her if she gets rid of it but what can i say to convince her. i told her life would suck with a kid but she still wants it no matter what i say. there is no way i will stay with her after having a kid. i dont want a kid and i know what haivng a kid does to a chick
any one here ever have 1 person want it and the other not. what did you do about it
update! i changed my mind. i am gonna be with my gf and the baby so please read everything before you post.
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
You can't do smurf. It's her uterus.
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
Sex equals babies - if you are having sex then you are old enough to be aware of the consequences.
Is it fair? No and you don't HAVE to stay with her, but if you love her and care about her, you won't just abandon her. Step up and be a man.
quoteposted 18th Nov
sign over your rights and hit the road, better off without you anyways smurf. maybe you should keep your cock in your pants
to add on.. exactly WHAT does having a kid, DO to a woman?
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
Giving her an ultimatum is a smurffy way to go about it. Talk to her like an adult and figure out what's best for you guys and the baby. Btw, calling her your "chick" makes you sound like a douche.
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
Should have prevented it. You can't force her to have an abortion. You need to man up and take responsibility for your actions!
quoteposted 18th Nov
There isn't smurf you can do buddy, be a smurfing adult and man up to your responsibilities!
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
Her body. Her choice.
You're having unprotected sex so you should've expected something like this to happen.
You don't have to be with her. And honestly if I was that girl I'd dump you.
quoteposted 18th Nov
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Sex equals babies - if you are having sex then you are old enough to be aware of the consequences. ... [snip!] ... and you don't HAVE to stay with her, but if you love her and care about her, you won't just abandon her. Step up and be a man. "
exactly!!!
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Australiaposted 18th Nov
If you didn't want a baby you should have double wrapped that smurf. Hope she tags you for CS.
quotesmurfs?posted 18th Nov
Quoting Sami&Baby Silas:" Her body. Her choice. You're having unprotected sex so you should've expected something like this to happen. You don't have to be with her. And honestly if I was that girl I'd dump you."
quoteposted 18th Nov
Hope she keeps it, makes you pay forever annnd ur dick falls off ;-)
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Texasposted 18th Nov
Well, too bad she's right. It's her body, so right now it's her choice. If you don't want it you can either sign away your rights (if she chooses) or be absent and pay child support.
Honestly, it's pretty heartless to give her an ultimatum. It sounds like you're an smurf and she'll be better off without you.
quotesmurfs?I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in
?posted 18th Nov
Take a few deep breathes, and don't do something you'll regret forever. Kids are a lot of work, and the idea of raising a child is very scary - especially if you don't feel ready. But the blessings are endless as well. They're well worth the sacrifices.
I'd really think about this before you do something you'll regret the rest of your life.
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Indianaposted 18th Nov
Wow. Is this serious?
"i will stay with her if she gets rid of it but what can i say to convince her"
She's better off with your money. That is your child wether you want it or not, so be prepared to financially support it for the next 18 years. You didnt want a child, then you should have taken precautions. You have no say in what she does with her body. Life does not suck with a child!
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