re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" hoping he's just busy with school and all..... i worry about him and that sister's bf... not a good situation."</blockquote>




I hope his sister's bf us still in jail.

Quoting Chris's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" hoping he's just busy with school and all..... ... [snip!] ... worry about him and that sister's bf... not a good situation."</blockquote> I hope his sister's bf us still in jail."

"His GF's Sisters BF"...And i do too.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" "His GF's Sisters BF"...And i do too."

oops...that is what I meant.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Hey OP hows it going? Are you getting your studies caught up? were you able to get a tutor? How is your GF? Do you have to go to court and testify against your GF's Sister's BF?"

hey its been a while since i updated this but i wasnt able to come on here cuz i was really upset cuz my gf isnt pregnant anymore. the doctor said she had a miss carrage and im still so upset about it. she is ok now but still really upset to. it sucks so much cuz i actually cared and was looking forward to it but now its not gonna happen. i bought so much stuff to and just couldnt look at it so i burned it all in a bonfire. my gf thinks its her fault his happened but i told her it was prolly mine cuz of all the stress.

i wish i could just go back a few months and change what happened. everytime i see her all i think about is the baby and what i said and did. so much smurf happened cuz of me getting her pregnant and now she isnt anymore. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i ruined her sisters life. i got my ass kicked and had to have surgery to fix the bones around my eye. i feel like such a loser and that im gonna smurf up everything i do

ive been so busy with school stuff. the tutor i have is awsome and really helping me out. doing school work helps cuz then im just thinking about that so i do that alot now cuz its the only thing that seems like i can do and the tutor really helps me concentrate. i never have done so good in school before. my grades are way better now before but feel like it doesnt even matter. im trying not to show im upset but its just making me feel worse

sorry i posted so much but i havent been able to really tell anyone how i really felt so it feels better to just get it out but i know my friends will just make fun of me and i would just upset my gf if i told them and just dont wanna tell my parents. id like to go back to the conselor but idk if that will help or what to say.

Quoting MX23:" hey its been a while since i updated this but i wasnt able to come on here cuz i was really upset cuz ... [snip!] ... i told them and just dont wanna tell my parents. id like to go back to the conselor but idk if that will help or what to say."

A loss no matter at what stage of the game is hard for both of you. You need to be honest about your feelings but you also need to be there for your gf.

Quoting MX23:" hey its been a while since i updated this but i wasnt able to come on here cuz i was really upset cuz ... [snip!] ... i told them and just dont wanna tell my parents. id like to go back to the conselor but idk if that will help or what to say."

That must be hard for you  
hope you and your gf will be ok

I've been following your posts from the beginning and I wanted to say that I am amazed and proud of how far you've come. You really turned things around and I salute you for that. I think that you would have been a good father.

Also I am so sorry for your loss. It must be truly heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your gf.

OP I'm sorry for your loss. I truly mean that. Anything I've said in the past is in the past.

Quoting MX23:" hey its been a while since i updated this but i wasnt able to come on here cuz i was really upset cuz ... [snip!] ... i told them and just dont wanna tell my parents. id like to go back to the conselor but idk if that will help or what to say."

I am so sorry for your loss   A loss at any stage is really hard on both parents. Don't be sorry for posting so much. We're all here for you to talk to. I would definitely say go to your counselor again and just talk to him about how you're feeling. It will all come out. Be there 100 percent for your gf. You need each other to make it through this.

You both need to stop blaming yourselves. Sometimes things just happen.
Again. Sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your loss.
It wasn't your fault or your girlfriends fault.
The majority of miscarriages happen because of chromosomal abnormalities, so basically the embryo just wasn't growing right and nature took it's course.
The important thing to remember is that you did nothing wrong.
Stay strong in school! Its good to know how well you are doing, and that is great for your future.
How are things with your girlfriends sister's boyfriend?
Hope that arse is in jail.
Talk and vent to us all you want.
We are all here for you  

Aww.   that's really sad! Sorry for your loss. I think you should go talk to your councelor and your gf should talk to one too. It would help you both and may help you both realize that miscarriages happen. My mom had 5. All from 39-42yrs old. the latest at 42, was a still born at 20 weeks. One of those her water broke at 17 weeks. (I think those numbers are correct. I know the first one was at 37 or 38 and the last one was at aound 42/43. She just turned 44?. The most recent was last winter)

Just remember its not either of your guys's faults. Sometimes it just happens. I've had friends that have lost their babies. Its really sad.

Quoting MX23:" hey its been a while since i updated this but i wasnt able to come on here cuz i was really upset cuz ... [snip!] ... i told them and just dont wanna tell my parents. id like to go back to the conselor but idk if that will help or what to say."

:'( OMG i am so sorry. But you can't blame yourself and your GF can't blame herself either. That doesn't help any. I really hope that this is a stepping stone for your relationship and that it helps to keep your relationship strong.

Glad school is going good. I think you need to talk to your parents, and maybe seeing your counselor again is good. maybe both you and your GF could see one together to help deal with your loss.

Again i am so sorry for your loss.

Im very, very sorry for your and your girlfriends loss. You didnt cause this. You didnt ruin her sisters life or their relationship. That is the sisters boyfriends fault. I wish you and your gf all the best.