re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kattie.C.:</b>" My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, ... [snip!] ... control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!"</blockquote>




Did you actually read the post that you quoted? Or just quoted it and replied from the title. He has "manned" up and is sticking by his girlfriend

Quoting Kattie.C.:" My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, ... [snip!] ... control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!"

oh shut the smurf up.

I have the same issue with my BF, he said all the same things you have said, minus the last line of actually staying with her and accepting responsibility. I think it is great you are doing it. Wish I could say the same in my case. We ARE WAY TO YOUNG, but I know with some help from supporting parents like we have we can get thru this 1- 1.5 years until we get out of school. I can continue homeschooling and graduate a year early and get into my career ASAP. I already have some college credits thru school. So it is possible for some teen parents to make it. Giving your child away or aborting it, it not really a way out. Regret is a HUGE burden... Im glad Im sticking with my choice and keeping my child, just wish he was more like you and finally manning up!! Good luck..

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" my gfs parents have actually been really nice to me lately. its so strange cuz of how things were a month ... [snip!] ... of it i guess tho. i told her not to worry cuz its not permanet and i thought she was cute. her appointment is after christmas"</blockquote>



Aww so happy for you! Just keep serious with school, you can do it. ;) Trust me, once you're out of school for a while you'll wish you could go back lol just keep working hard and enjoy it as you go. And advice for when she starts getting upset about her getting "fat", keep making her feel beautiful and letting her know that she will always be special to you no matter what. That is one of the things my SO had a hard time with because he's not good with showing emotions but it's simple things like that, that can make the biggest difference to a girl while her body's going through changes that she has a hard time dealing with. You're doing a great job with everything! So proud of you!!  

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Oh OP i am so happy for you. Like i can't even say how happy i am that everything is turning out the ... [snip!] ... times a night just to pee. Its crazy but these are the little things that you do for your little miracle. Congrats again!!"

school work is my biggest struggle now. this concussion is just strange. i feel great for a while then all of a sudden i feel like smurf. i hate that i forgot that i do stuff. ended up doing an assignment twice cuz i forgot i did it. im even forgetting where i put stuff sometimes. the doctor said its normal and that i will get better though and it just takes time.

my gf doesnt eat alot of junk food so thats good. she likes to eat healthy and was always working out or running so i think thats what bothering her so much. she actually makes me eat more healthy.

i didnt realize that about the bathroom but im glad its normal. we watched a movie and she had to to like 3times. i thought something was wrong but she said her dr said it would happen.

congrats on having a baby to. are u excited about it?

Quoting Sara McKenize:" I have the same issue with my BF, he said all the same things you have said, minus the last line of actually ... [snip!] ... Im glad Im sticking with my choice and keeping my child, just wish he was more like you and finally manning up!! Good luck.."

well maybe he will change his mind. i was really shocked and scared so just said the first thing i could think of. i still feel bad about what i did. i regret it so much and it still bothers me that i was so mean. it took me a little while to realize i messed up so hopefully your bf is the same.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" my gfs parents have actually been really nice to ... [snip!] ... going through changes that she has a hard time dealing with. You're doing a great job with everything! So proud of you!!  "

everyone seems to say that school is better than work. lol. guess ill see that someday. i just have alot to do right now. my gf does really good in school so she is trying to help me.. its just so hard and im behind so i just have to catch up.

ill have to remember that about telling her she looks good. i think its really going to bother her cuz she isnt big at all and already mentioned it and was upset.

Quoting MX23:" school work is my biggest struggle now. this concussion is just strange. i feel great for a while then ... [snip!] ... i thought something was wrong but she said her dr said it would happen. congrats on having a baby to. are u excited about it?"

Not yet, but my fiance is really happy. I guess i just overwhelmed with everything going on. And with not sleeping well at all. Most of my family is excited tho. So i think after i check somethings off my list of things to do i will be more happy

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" everyone seems to say that school is better than work. lol. guess ill see that someday. i just have ... [snip!] ... her she looks good. i think its really going to bother her cuz she isnt big at all and already mentioned it and was upset."</blockquote>




Yeah I started complaining when I first started to show lol I was more worried about me getting fat and stretch marks than I was about becoming a mom haha just a girl thing I guess.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" everyone seems to say that school is better than ... [snip!] ... lol I was more worried about me getting fat and stretch marks than I was about becoming a mom haha just a girl thing I guess."

Yep i was the same way. I hated the way my stomach looked when i was pregnant, but after LO was born i missed my belly

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Not yet, but my fiance is really happy. I guess i just overwhelmed with everything going on. And with ... [snip!] ... at all. Most of my family is excited tho. So i think after i check somethings off my list of things to do i will be more happy"

well thats good. im sure it will be better once things settle down for you. then you will be just as excited!

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" everyone seems to say that school is better than ... [snip!] ... lol I was more worried about me getting fat and stretch marks than I was about becoming a mom haha just a girl thing I guess."

haha. that is just like her. when i saw her i was kinda staring which i think that wasnt good cuz it prolly made it worse but i wasnt staring cuz it was bad. just thought it was cool but also made me more scared cuz its really happening

Quoting MX23:" haha. that is just like her. when i saw her i was kinda staring which i think that wasnt good cuz it ... [snip!] ... it worse but i wasnt staring cuz it was bad. just thought it was cool but also made me more scared cuz its really happening"

Talk to her about it and just help her to feel more comfortable. Just wait until you get to feel the baby kick.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Talk to her about it and just help her to feel more comfortable. Just wait until you get to feel the baby kick."

ok ill try to make her feel better about it. that is gonna be awsome to feel it kick. when does that happen? does it hurt when it kicks?

Quoting MX23:" ok ill try to make her feel better about it. that is gonna be awsome to feel it kick. when does that happen? does it hurt when it kicks?"

Sometimes but not normally depending on how the baby is positioned (like if the baby kicks her in the ribs) but its an amazing feeling. I want to say closer to 20weeks. I think i felt my first move (flutters) around 17weeks. So you got some time yet.