re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

Quoting MX23:" i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first ... [snip!] ... and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways."

Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't have cameras up outside they should always be on whether school is in session or not.....I hope your ok, make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't ... [snip!] ... make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?"

the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year.

yeah i feel like smurf. not sure what is gonna happen with him and the cops so im scared about that. falling more behind in school now. i wish i could just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total smurf up

i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday

Quoting MX23:" the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year. yeah i feel like smurf. not sure what ... [snip!] ... just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total smurf up i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday"

Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work"

thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance.

Quoting MX23:" thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. ... [snip!] ... about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance."

I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??"

she is really stressed out and i feel bad cuz its all my fault. i told her not to worry about it or me but she wont listen. if i didnt start with her sister none of this would have happened. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i feel so bad.

Quoting MX23:" thank you! the cops said they are gonna go and talk to my gfs sister to. my gf is so upset to and i ... [snip!] ... trying to do better in school and now i have to take more days off. im not even sure if im gonna pass now. so depresing. "

No this is not your fault! You did nothing wrong, who gives a smurf if you yelled back at her...people get what they give. And don't feel like a whimp either! I'm sure if it came down to you protecting you and your family, you could handle it but there is no need. You did it for your girl and your baby, don't feel ashamed. And for school work, will your mom pick up classwork & homework?

Quoting MX23:" she is really stressed out and i feel bad cuz its all my fault. i told her not to worry about it or ... [snip!] ... if i didnt start with her sister none of this would have happened. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i feel so bad."e

Well maybe things with your GF and her sis were rocky before all of this. I have 4 sisters and trust me you are NOT the one who ruined the relationship between them. Girls hold grudges and there probably was tension before what happen with you and your GF's Sis

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" No this is not your fault! You did nothing wrong, who gives a smurf if you yelled back at her...people ... [snip!] ... did it for your girl and your baby, don't feel ashamed. And for school work, will your mom pick up classwork & homework?"

my gf said the same thing pretty much but i just feel like if i could have done things different. i guess its done and i cant do anything about it. seems like i screw up everything i do.

1 good thing about today is mom got me a good deal with school. all the work i havent done the last 3 weeks i can get full credit for it if i get it done by next monday. she brought home a ton of stuff that i have to do and my gf is gonna get anything i miss next week. i also cant miss any classes without a note so no more skipping. im still sore tho and having a hard time concentrating so im gonna try to start it all on monday.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well maybe things with your GF and her sis were rocky before all of this. I have 4 sisters and trust ... [snip!] ... the relationship between them. Girls hold grudges and there probably was tension before what happen with you and your GF's Sis"

yeah they did argue alot b4 so maybe your right.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" my gf said the same thing pretty much but i just feel like if i could have done things different. i ... [snip!] ... a note so no more skipping. im still sore tho and having a hard time concentrating so im gonna try to start it all on monday."</blockquote>




Don't beat yourself up, you're doing a great job! Better than most people, especially at your age lol. And that's great! Sounds like you have an awesome
Mom   Just keep your head up doing what's right.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" yeah they did argue alot b4 so maybe your right. "</blockquote>



Don't worry, you didn't ruin her relationship with her sister.
If her older sister was letting her boyfriend pick on you and your gf then it was already a smurffy relationship between them.
Blood is meant to be thicker than water, and her sister just sounds like a spoilt selfish cow.

Its great that you got the cops involved. It might be overwhelming right now, but in the long run it is for the best.
Just try to relax a bit, and when you're feeling down just think about how well you are doing.
You've made the best choices and have done so well these last few weeks.
You've really matured and proved yourself to your girlfriend and her parents.
You've got a second chance at school lined up.
You are doing great!
Just keep your head up and remember to talk honestly and openly with your parents, they are there to guide and help you, and they sound like they really love and care about you.

surely you know/knew how babys were concieved?you had sex, you risked her getting pregnant, stick by her for your childs sake, how would you like it if your father had never got involved in your life and didnt want you? growing up thinking ''why does he hate me so much''?
you stuck it in, you got her pregnant, go out, get a job and support your child!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:</b>" surely you know/knew how babys were concieved?you had sex, you risked her getting pregnant, stick by ... [snip!] ... up thinking ''why does he hate me so much''? you stuck it in, you got her pregnant, go out, get a job and support your child!"</blockquote>


Shut the smurf up and learn to read.

OP delete everything in ur first post except the update and change the name of this topic.