re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" Shut the smurf up and read the thread. "</blockquote>




Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "</blockquote>


You need to tell!! He can not be beating you up! You're having a baby, what if he decides to try to hurt your gf or baby later? What if he'ms been doing this to his gf and she's been covering up cause she's scared. You have to think about not only yourself, but your gf and your baby. Do want him to be allowed around either of them? You never know what he'll do. (That's what I would be worried about)

Tell your parents now! And then say you were scared cause he said he would get the baby taken away and you were afraid to tell them cause of that and say you're sorry for lying. Cause they aren't going to be happy that you lied to them! Also, you should look into getting a restraining order on him and see if you can get one for him and your gf. (It might be a good idea in the long run. Cause he sounds like a psycho and he could decide that if he can't get to u, he might go after her.) I'm not trying to scare you! I'm just trying to look at it from every perspective. (I know some psycho people and have heard stories from friends who know some psycho people)

I hope you tell and make this guy pay! For your safety and the safety of your gf and unborn child. And you never know, he could be hurting his own gf.

Oh, one more thing, don't listen to what he says! Not with out talking to your parents and/or councelor about it. He's just trying to scare you! Cause he can NOT get your baby taken away! Especially since he's the one beating you up! And unless you and your gf are doing some really bad things, like hardcore drugs, have no where to live, no job, just have nothing or doing something that could harm the baby, you aren't going to get your baby taken away

Quoting Tay L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when ... [snip!] ... to live, no job, just have nothing or doing something that could harm the baby, you aren't going to get your baby taken away"

i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved the punch at my gfs house but this was bad. i was thinking he would stop now but he might not.

i guess i should tell my parents. i feel bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell

Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"

I would tell your parents. Like someone said previously if he beat you up on school grounds they may have video of it to back you up and even if they don't at least you would be able to tell your parents so they can help to make sure he stays away from you. I don't think this dude is gonna just get over it, I feel like he will keep trying to hurt you if you don't say anything. As long as you and your gf, take care of your baby and do what you are supposed to there is no reason you should get the baby taken from you. He's just trying to scare you

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"</blockquote>


That's really sad! I just want to give you a hug.
After how hard you have tried and how far you have come, you don't deserve this smurf beating up on you and making your life miserable.

Definitely tell your parents, you can get a restraining order on him so then you don't have to worry about him coming near you or he will go to jail.
Also let your girlfriends parents know just the kind of psycho he is!

I hope he gets what is coming to him, because it is just so wrong what he has done to you.
Make sure you go to the doctors and get checked up in case you have internal bleeding or another concussion  
You could also use the medical certificate in any legal problems, if there happen to be any.
It will help you get a restraining order put in place for sure.

How are you feeling now?
Hope you're okay.

Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"

You need to tell someone. First off he's an ADULT hitting a minor. Tell your parents the truth. He can't call and get your baby taken away. He's just trying to scare you or he's really that stupid and has no idea what he's talking about.

Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"

I know its already been posted. But please involve your parents in this matter. He needs to be reported he cant go around beating people up and getting by with it. Else it will happen again.

Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"

And if you have cuts,bruises, swelling.... take pictures you need to document it.
Was there no one left outside the school as this was going on?

i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first punched me at my gfs house but this time was bad and i never hit anyone or did anything to him. there is no video outside the school and it was later so no one was even around and it all happend so fast then he just took off.

my parents said i need to not lie to them cuz they are there to help me. ive been lieing to much to them lately. they said its hard for them to trust me and i need to start telling the truth. i told them everything and they called the cops. i had to tell them everything to and show them the txts. they took pictures of me and said i shouldnt go out alone until they get him. they said they could arrest him for at least 4 different things. i foget what they were tho. i hope i didnt make things worse. they said i might have to go to court and tell the judge everything to. not sure i wanna do that especially with him listening to it all.

cant he just deny it all tho? what if he gets off. im really worried he might come after me again. my mom is staying home with me today and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways.

Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my ... [snip!] ... happen to be any. It will help you get a restraining order put in place for sure. How are you feeling now? Hope you're okay."

i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i got hit at my gfs house that made it worse and then the fight really made it bad. he said its easy to get another one after just getting one.

he said i was ok other than that and had to rest and not do anything to bang my head at all. he said my nose wasnt broken and eyes were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion.

Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "

OMFG! Smurf that, turn that piece of smurf in. He can't get your baby taken away from you, tell your parents. They SHOULD have camera's at the school, get a restraining order so that if he contacts you, threatens you or tries to hurt you he will be locked up. And he will keep getting locked up until he gives up. No, you don't need to deal with that smurf. If you keep letting him get away with it, he WILL keep doing it. Please keep posted!

Quoting MX23:" i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i ... [snip!] ... were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion."

I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol Seriously though, be careful! If I were you I would keep pepper spray on you just in case you need to use it to get away and call the cops. I'm glad your dad is getting camera's, def a good idea. Your parents should talk to her parents, because like the other girl said...he probably is beating up on her. And honestly, thats probably why she's such a bitch. I was a bitch when I was in that kind of relationship. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this, your a good kid and don't deserve any of it! Keep your head up, I'm sure you will be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first ... [snip!] ... and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways."</blockquote>



Im glad you told and glad that the police have gotten involved. He can try to deny it but you have the threatening texts as well as the bruises. So no matter what he says he smurfed himself.
If you have to testify in court then do it. Sometimes they will take him out of the room sometimes they wont. But it shouldnt matter. Just speak the truth.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol ... [snip!] ... be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you!  "

thank you! the cops said they are gonna go and talk to my gfs sister to. my gf is so upset to and i feel bad. i told her not to be cuz its my fault all this happened. if i didnt argue with her sister none of this would of happened.

im glad hes getting cameras for her. my mother left for a while to get lunch for us and i was paranoide. ive never been like that. i feel like such a wimp.

plus im stressed out cuz i was really trying to do better in school and now i have to take more days off. im not even sure if im gonna pass now. so depresing.

Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "

  OP you need to report this....Please listen to us. What advice have we given you that hasn't worked out?!?