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re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

posted 7th Dec
Quoting MX23:" thanks. i had to google what a birth plan is and found a sample. now i get it. ill just have to keep a list of all the questions as i think of them so i can ask the hospital."

Oh OP i am so excited for you. This is a big change from 20days ago. really congrats on everything that is going for you. You seem to be very excited about everything now. How is your GF doing? Have you talked about where you are going to be living?
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I'm due August 25th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Pembine, Wisconsin
posted 7th Dec
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Oh OP i am so excited for you. This is a big change from 20days ago. really congrats on everything that ... [snip!] ... You seem to be very excited about everything now. How is your GF doing? Have you talked about where you are going to be living?"

thanks so much! mostly everyone on here really helped me alot. my gf is doing really good now. shes been coming over after school this week to drop off my homework and we are doing much better now. we hang out for a little while each night.

both our parents asked about where we were gonna live to. there isnt alot of room at her house so we talked to my parents cuz there is plenty of room here and they did say we could live here if we wanted to. my gf said she would but isnt sure how her parents would take that or if they would let her. she hasnt talked to them about it yet and is scared to tell them. we would tell them together but i think i wanna wait a while cuz i dont want them mad at me again. i dont know if its better to wait and tell them later or tell them soon. i hope they let her to or else im not sure what i would do.
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I live in Japan
posted 7th Dec
Quoting MX23:" thanks so much! mostly everyone on here really helped me alot. my gf is doing really good now. shes ... [snip!] ... know if its better to wait and tell them later or tell them soon. i hope they let her to or else im not sure what i would do."

Ahhh I'm so happy for you guys!!! Again, I'm so proud of how far you came in such a short period of time. And you know I'm here if you ever need me   Definately if you guys can live at your parents, do it! We're still living with SO's mom and we have our own apartment, pretty much the whole basement haha but we're saving up for a house. Rent is soo expensive, if you're given help definately take it. Things are hard on your own, you never really realize how much bills actually are until you go out on your own lol. I'm just glad because it seems you both have great parents who care and will support you guys. Just use what they do for you to be successful on your own. Keep up the good work bud!
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I have 1 child & live in Maryland
posted 7th Dec
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Ahhh I'm so happy for you guys!!! Again, I'm so proud of how far you came in such a short period of ... [snip!] ... who care and will support you guys. Just use what they do for you to be successful on your own. Keep up the good work bud!"

thanks! i hope her parents let her live here. it be awsome having her here all the time. yeah there would be way to many bills if we moved out. plus it be easier for us if we lived here if we both go to school. i definitely wanna take all the help we can get. my parents have been really supportive. im so surprised. dad is still angry but not yelling. guess its more like still disappointed.
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I live in Japan
posted 8th Dec
Quoting MX23:" thanks! i hope her parents let her live here. it be awsome having her here all the time. yeah there ... [snip!] ... have been really supportive. im so surprised. dad is still angry but not yelling. guess its more like still disappointed."

Thats what you think NOW LOL!
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I'm due May 31st (a girl), have 11 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 8th Dec
OP, I am very proud of you and also very happy for you and your gf. <3
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I have 1 child & live in Cranford, New Jersey
posted 8th Dec
Quoting i ♥ nora:" OP, I am very proud of you and also very happy for you and your gf. <3"
  
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I live in California
posted 8th Dec
Quoting MX23:" i really need help ive been with my chick for like 2 years now and now she is pregnent and i dont know ... [snip!] ... you do about it update! i changed my mind. i am gonna be with my gf and the baby so please read everything before you post."

Being a dad is not so bad your life will change but it's for the better you might not see it now. Also dont be one of those guys that dont want anything to do with the baby if it's a girl.
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I have 2 kids & live in Ohio
posted 8th Dec
i asked my parents if i could be allowed to go over to my gfs house to apoligize to her sister and they said i could go out for 2 hours if my gf picked me up and brought me back.

i was hoping her parents would be home so they could see i was doing what they asked but they werent. i told her sister i was really sorry for what i said. it wasnt nice and i want to make things better between us cuz i am gonna be around my gf and the baby so we are going to see each other and i dont wanna hate each other.

well then she flipped out again at me. i really dont know what her problem is. she is insane. i was nice to her and even didnt yell back at her. i think she was waiting for it and it prolly pissed her off that i didnt start a fight with her so she kept yelling at me calling me a loser low life stuff like that.

her bf was there to and he was yelling at me. i told my gf to just bring me home and her bf shoved me like he wanted to fight me. i wasnt gonna fight him there plus hes alot bigger than me and hes 25. i know he would kick my ass. i think me walking away pissed him off to cuz he caught me off guard and punched me in the head. just when my headaches were just about better and now they are back   he said he wasnt done with me and said theres more where that comes and ill see him next week.

im so pissed at her bf. i would love to try to kick his ass even if i would lose. such a pussy to punch me like that. my gf said she will tell her parents everything cuz i did nothing wrong. she is mad at her sister now so at least she isnt mad at me.

at least i tried to do the right thing and didnt loose my temper there.
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I live in Japan
posted 8th Dec
Quoting MX23:" i asked my parents if i could be allowed to go over to my gfs house to apoligize to her sister and they ... [snip!] ... mad at her sister now so at least she isnt mad at me. at least i tried to do the right thing and didnt loose my temper there."

What douches.

What 25 year old man tries to bully a teen kid whose trying to apologize.

So smurfing mature.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due May 31st (a girl), have 11 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 8th Dec
Quoting Sarah24Michelle:" Being a dad is not so bad your life will change but it's for the better you might not see it now. Also dont be one of those guys that dont want anything to do with the baby if it's a girl."

yeah i really hope its a boy. i know i got some smurf on here for saying that but its just how i feel right now. i just think i could relate to a boy better. not that a girl cant do things a boy would. i dont know how to explain it i guess.

if it is a girl it doesnt mean im gonna hate her or not do anything with her cuz i will. i would just prefer a boy.
quotesmurfs?
I live in Japan
posted 8th Dec
Quoting MX23:" yeah i really hope its a boy. i know i got some smurf on here for saying that but its just how i feel ... [snip!] ... i guess. if it is a girl it doesnt mean im gonna hate her or not do anything with her cuz i will. i would just prefer a boy. "

Don't feel bad - I'm gonna cry and have a pity party if this baby is a boy. I want my girl damn it.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due May 31st (a girl), have 11 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 8th Dec
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" What douches. What 25 year old man tries to bully a teen kid whose trying to apologize. So smurfing mature. "

 

OP, it sounds like they are "trying" to make you get mad and lash out, so that then they can tell the parents how awful you are and how terrible you'll be for their daughter and new grandchild. i would just keep trying to do the right thing, keep being nice to her (sister), but not be around her and the bf alone anymore. they sound like they are trying to get you into trouble.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 8th Dec
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" What douches. What 25 year old man tries to bully a teen kid whose trying to apologize. So smurfing mature. "

yeah i think he was on some drugs cuz he was just flipping out at me for no reason. he just wasnt normal. i no i called his gf some bad names but i apoligized politely. i didnt swear or even yell back when they yelled at me.

i knew i should have not done it with her parents not home. i just figured she would be fine with it and we could just move on.
quotesmurfs?
I live in Japan
posted 8th Dec
Quoting MX23:" yeah i think he was on some drugs cuz he was just flipping out at me for no reason. he just wasnt normal. ... [snip!] ... knew i should have not done it with her parents not home. i just figured she would be fine with it and we could just move on. "

I am sure your girlfriend will tell your parents that you apologized politely.
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I'm due May 31st (a girl), have 11 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
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