re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kitten Power:</b>" whatever, like i give 2 smurfs bout what you say/type, your worthless, i almost lost my partner this ... [snip!] ... weekend, hence why i'm smurfing angry, so please carry on and make all these lame ass wankers laugh, i dont give 2 smurfs anymore"</blockquote>



If you can't post without some decency then you probably shouldn't be posting. I'm sorry you almost lost your partner but it doesn't give you any excuse to be rude to everyone who posts to you

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kitten Power:</b>" whI just got dumpedatever, like i give 2 ... [snip!] ... to get a huge needle shoved in my uterus because my baby might have a genetic defect. Cry about it a little smurfing more  "</blockquote>



Oh really? I'm sorry! Update me please when you find out I'm sorry

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... about it a little smurfing more  "</blockquote> Oh really? I'm sorry! Update me please when you find out I'm sorry"</blockquote>



Thank you, I will. I'm not terribly worried. But we have downs running through my family and some of the soft markers came back concerning. We just want to be sure.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, ... [snip!] ... But we have downs running through my family and some of the soft markers came back concerning. We just want to be sure."</blockquote>



You're welcome! And I hope it comes back ok

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kitten Power:</b>" you should talk to her not us, other than ... [snip!] ... the entire post before responding to posts that are this long. This has been said many times and he is going to stay with her"

God i love how people jump into the conversation after 60 pages and think that this guy hasn't changed his mind

OP have you told your parents yet??

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:</b>" God i love how people jump into the conversation after 60 pages and think that this guy hasn't changed his mind"</blockquote>



Yep. I don't know if I'm just an oddball or want but I read every long post before I reply.
Except D&D

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:</b>" God i love how people jump into ... [snip!] ... Yep. I don't know if I'm just an oddball or want but I read every long post before I reply. Except D&D"

Yep me too. And even before replying on this topic, if i missed a page or 2 i always read it through. Why double comment on topics if they are already over with. D &D i think is an exception.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:</b>" Yep me too. And even before replying on this topic, if i missed a page or 2 i always read it through. Why double comment on topics if they are already over with. D &D i think is an exception."</blockquote>



Yeah absolutely. I always catch up before replying except for K&S where I reply while catching up or D&D. I believe D&D is an exception

I just want to say, I'm putting myself in your "chick"'s shoes. I'm on that other side, where the father of my baby does not want anything to do with it, wont help or give support, nothing.

For your sake and hers, you have two options. Man up and accept that she's bringing a gift into this world. Sure, you can make one whenever, but one day when you realize there is a piece of you on this earth that you once wanted nothing of, you're going to feel like smurf. Think about things before you decide. Having a baby means not being able to party near as much, do the things you used to as much, and it might bring on some struggles, but that's life. If you're grown up enough to have sex, you should be grown up enough to show some support.

If you decide that you don't want to be apart of the baby's life, for the sake of your girlfriend and your baby, leave her. But don't feel angry when you start having to pay for child support or when one day you realize you messed up and want to be a father. It's now or never. You have a little time, but be considerate. You don't get to just choose when to be a father to your child.

Quoting 3xpire:" I just want to say, I'm putting myself in your "chick"'s shoes. I'm on that other side, where the father ... [snip!] ... It's now or never. You have a little time, but be considerate. You don't get to just choose when to be a father to your child."

Before you reply read the first 50 or so pages... he already decided to something different but no you still make a long ass reply of BS.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3xpire:</b>" I just want to say, I'm putting myself in your "chick"'s shoes. I'm on that other side, where the father ... [snip!] ... It's now or never. You have a little time, but be considerate. You don't get to just choose when to be a father to your child."</blockquote>



At least read the last smurfing page before responding to a thread this long.


Op put an update in the first post or something, smurf

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3xpire:</b>" I just want to say, I'm putting myself in your ... [snip!] ... read the last smurfing page before responding to a thread this long. Op put an update in the first post or something, smurf"

Seriously OP edit your post on the first page because people are smurfing paying attention. Apparently it's too hard to read nowadays.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" OP have you told your parents yet??"

yeah. wasnt easy and was harder than even talking to her parents cuz i feel like i let them down.


i told them this morning about the car. they didnt seem to care to much and said it was just an accident and insurance will cover it. they were worried about me more than anything. they were pissed the cops didnt send me to the hospital from the accident. my headaches are getting worse and lights are really bothering me so my mom wanted to take me to the my regular doctor laater today.

so then i told them what happened with my gf. i was so scared. i figured i would start by saying i wanted them to listen to me b4 they said anything. i told them everything from how i felt at first to how i changed my mind and that i wanted to be with her and the baby. told them i was seeing a conselor and wanted to be more responsable.

they were so shocked and didnt say anything for what seemed like forever. i got yelled at a little bit but i think they held back cuz i wasnt felling good. said they were disappointed in me how could i let it happen. all the stuff i knew they would say. they wanted to know if we would live together and lots of the stuff her parents asked. i couldnt really answer much cuz i didnt know since we havent talked about all that yet. im not really even sure what to do

they said they were really upset with me and disappointed but was glad i was actually taking responsability for what i did. said they werent proud of what i did but proud of how i handled things.

so it went better than i thought. i was glad it was over but felt like smurf.

Quoting MX23:" yeah. wasnt easy and was harder than even talking to her parents cuz i feel like i let them down. i ... [snip!] ... what i did but proud of how i handled things. so it went better than i thought. i was glad it was over but felt like smurf. "

Glad that your parents understood in a way. Hope you start feeling better soon. Did you end up going to the regular doctor? At least now your parents are home and can help you.