Quoting MX23:" im definitely gonna ask then. now i just have to stress out about telling my parents. at least they will be in a good mood when i tell them everything. "
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Don't stress too much. Sure, they may be disappointed in you, but I have a feeling they will support ... [snip!] ... isn't any changing it and if you show them that you are trying to do whats right, I am sure that will help the situation. "
Quoting MX23:" i hope so. they are usually reasonable when i screw things up. i just havent done anything this bad ... [snip!] ... anything this bad b4. do you think i should tell him about the car first and then the pregnancy a few days later or all once. "
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" It's like ripping off a band aid, telling them about each thing separately is not going to make them ... [snip!] ... that you and your girlfriend are expecting. (I don't know what happened with the car, but offer to pay for it. >_<)"
Quoting MX23:" lol ok. i guess ur right. oh i cant pay for the car. they said its like 16000 at least. plus i guess i have to pay for the guard rail and the other 2 cars."
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" omg, what the heck did you do to it and what kind of car is it? (* imagining myself wrecking my fiances convertible* shudder.....no thanks). "
Quoting MX23:" well after i met with her parents i was driving home and it was snowing. i was so excited i didnt realize ... [snip!] ... the lights tho so im just hanging out in the dark. lol was supposed to go out at 9 with some friends but i think i might not. "
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Freakin ouch! Jeeze - lol, no offense, we are car people but there is no way I would be letting my teen ... [snip!] ... start considering whats going on when you guys hang out and the possible consequences. Besides, it sounds like you need rest. "
Quoting MX23:" lol. its my car tho. parents got it for me when i was 16. gonna suck with no car here for the next few ... [snip!] ... yeah i do need to stay in i think. and yeah i need to think about what im doing cuz i cant screw up with her parents anymore."
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" My fiances dad bough his sister a vintage camaro for her 16th birthday and she flipped it the next ... [snip!] ... rumors or anything to her, not to talk badly about your friends, but I work with high school kids, I know how they can be. "
Quoting MX23:" oh that really sucks. at least i had it over a year. i guess insurance will pay everything but his rates ... [snip!] ... a bad idea. yeah some of my friends do know her and alot of us hang out together sometimes. what kind of rumors do you mean?"
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Well I would let your parents know that you are willing to pay the compensation for his rates going ... [snip!] ... be careful. Don't just mistrust your friends, but you don't want them interfering with something as important as this, either. "
Quoting MX23:" no i dont want the kid so there is no way im gonna stay with her and ruin my life if she has it i ... [snip!] ... to go out and do stuff all the time. she will regret this when she has it. i know she will. ive been with her long enough."wow you are freaking idiot!! my boyfriend has 2 children and ours on the way. he can still do all the things he loves and be with his kids. you need to grow the freak up and be a man not a child. if you really loved her then you would stand by her all the way. you will regret this one day
Quoting MX23:" oh i would hope they wouldnt do that. i worked to hard at this now for them to ruin it on me. they havent ... [snip!] ... post i make outside of this post i need to defend myself tho. lol. i really pissed off some people on here but didnt mean to."
Quoting Jaydensmommy2013:" wow you are freaking idiot!! my boyfriend has 2 children and ours on the way. he can still do all the ... [snip!] ... up and be a man not a child. if you really loved her then you would stand by her all the way. you will regret this one day"