re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I would save my money if I were you, you'll get to another one. This is your guys baby, not her parents. ... [snip!] ... she really wants you there, then you guys can make it happen but hopefully her parents stop being duesch's and step aside.  "

I see you too live in maryland ;).

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I see you too live in maryland ;)."

Yes ma'am

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" those are so cool. cant beleive you can see them like that and how they move. i hope she has a picture ... [snip!] ... one then since she will have another. i just really gotta convince them tomorow to let me go cuz i really wanna see it now."</blockquote>


The ultrasound on my profile is from 20 weeks

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" those are so cool. cant beleive you can see them like that and how they move. i hope she has a picture ... [snip!] ... one then since she will have another. i just really gotta convince them tomorow to let me go cuz i really wanna see it now."</blockquote>


If you want, just have a look in my albums here on Baby GaGa, I've got a scan from 9 weeks, so you can see what your baby looks like right now  

Quoting MX23:" that sucks they dont always do that all the time. how come? if i ask i wonder if they would do it?"

You can always pay for one.

well today was the big day. man was i nervous.so last night i was supposed to go out with my friends and hang out in the woods. we always start a fire and just hang out and drink. decided not to even tho i got smurf on here in another post for "not having any friends and staying in on friday" i wanted to go meet her parents with a clear head and not be all hung over

made sure i got there early so i wasnt late. when they got there i told them thanks for coming and giving me a chance to talk to them and if they could just listen to me and hear what i said first then i would answer any questions they had honestly.

told them i was really sorry and i know i screwed up big time here and in the past. i said i was really trying to become a better person and am going to a conselor that is really helping me out. i know you and even jess dont trust me right now but i want to prove that i can be trusted. i know that is gonna take time but i really would like to be with jess right now to support her and the baby. i love her very much and will love the baby the same. i really regret what i said to her but i was scared and didnt know what to say or do. i learned alot from it and even tho im scared about being a father i am actually excited about it after reading and talking to people about it. i hope that we can put what happened behind us and start over. i dont want to argue with you and will respect whatever you say. i just want to do what is right.

so then i asked if they had any questions and i really got some tuff ones. so her dad said something like he thought it was mature of me to do all this and they apreciated it. he asked a bunch of questions like what did i think our plan would be for the baby like where would we live. told him i would need to talk to jess and we can decide together. asked if i told my parents and i said no and explained why. then he asked about college. told him i would watch they baby while she was at class. also told them i was looking into community college and plan to talk to my conselor about it next week. wanted to know about finances cuz jess doesnt work and he said he and his wife shouldnt have to support the baby. told him i would still work and would pay for stuff but i didnt know how much i needed until we figure out where to live. he said he didnt appreciate that i use my parents credit card for everything like i did today. told him they allow it for now and i would talk to them about that. they had so many questions i cant remember them all now.

at the end he did say that jess did say she would like to see me and would like me in the babys life. he said i still have to get her to trust me and prove to them that i can be a good father and be good to jess. they said they would allow me to see her but they would have stricked rules like i have to have her back home by a certain time and i cant call after a certain time. i would have to follow all these and that would be 1 way to start to get there trust back.

he said i was very rude to her sister and needed to apoligize to her in person. uh that is gonna be hard but im gonna do it for my gf. he said i needed to do better in school even tho im almost done and just need to start acting like an adult because im almost 18 and have a child on the way and cant be living a party lifestyle anymore. there were lots of others but you get the idea.

her mom showed me a picture of the baby from her doctors visit. it was so cool to see. i cant beleive how small it is right now. seeing that makes me really want to do everything right. i asked if i could see jess today or tomorow. they said i could call her and find out cuz she is out with her sister now.

they said its going to take a long time for me to earn there trust but if im serious about what i said and do all the right things they would be willing to forgive me. so it seems like i have 1 more chance. they did say i could go to all the doctor appointments.

so i think it went well. i really just have to concentrate and noww just make sure i do what i said i would. had some really bad luck on the drive home cuz i got into a bad accident but so glad i went.

Quoting MX23:" well today was the big day. man was i nervous.so last night i was supposed to go out with my friends ... [snip!] ... sure i do what i said i would. had some really bad luck on the drive home cuz i got into a bad accident but so glad i went."

I'm so glad everything went well, I think you are on the right path here. Aren't ultrasound pictures amazing? It's crazy what something the size of a grape can do to you, isn't it? I wish you the very best and good luck!

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I'm so glad everything went well, I think you are on the right path here. Aren't ultrasound pictures ... [snip!] ... amazing? It's crazy what something the size of a grape can do to you, isn't it? I wish you the very best and good luck!"

it was amazing. i couldnt make out any part of the baby but just seeing that small dot was so cool. i so regret what i said to her after seeing that. i think her mom even realize it then cuz she gave me a hug. it was so awsome. it made my day so much i dont even care about my car right now.

Good for you!

Quoting MX23:" it was amazing. i couldnt make out any part of the baby but just seeing that small dot was so cool. ... [snip!] ... even realize it then cuz she gave me a hug. it was so awsome. it made my day so much i dont even care about my car right now. "

Wait until you can get a 3d/4d! Those things are freakin amazing, they generally do them around 20+ weeks - I got one done around 30 weeks or so and I could see details of my sons face and even what his hair looked like. Some places make you pay to have those done, but it's worth it.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Wait until you can get a 3d/4d! Those things are freakin amazing, they generally do them around 20+ ... [snip!] ... details of my sons face and even what his hair looked like. Some places make you pay to have those done, but it's worth it. "

My sister said they are testing even higher res versions to come out in a few years  

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" My sister said they are testing even higher res versions to come out in a few years  "

It's so amazing what they can do these days. I remember my mom being pregnant with my sister in 2000 - and even then, she didn't find out the gender until she was 38 weeks because the ultrasounds weren't as clear and my sister didn't like to show her girly bits. Heck, I can even tell the difference between the ones from my son 4 years ago and the one we got for this baby.

i saw some of the 3d ones on here i think. a few people posted them. i cant believe how clear they are cuz u can see everything. i will pay for one of those for sure.

Quoting MX23:" i saw some of the 3d ones on here i think. a few people posted them. i cant believe how clear they are cuz u can see everything. i will pay for one of those for sure."

You might not have to, I know the place I went to with my son did them for free with every ultrasound past 20 weeks and I know the place I am at now does free ones at the gender scan at 20 weeks. I would ask when you guys go in for another appointment.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" You might not have to, I know the place I went to with my son did them for free with every ultrasound ... [snip!] ... the place I am at now does free ones at the gender scan at 20 weeks. I would ask when you guys go in for another appointment. "

im definitely gonna ask then.

now i just have to stress out about telling my parents. at least they will be in a good mood when i tell them everything.