re: chick is pregnent and i dont want it

Dont really give a smurf cause look what got himself into if he was protected, now hes gotta step up and be a man to a baby he dont want around.
Or he can be another dead beat and move the smurf along and leave the girl alone

Quoting *Expecting #3*:" How far along is she right now????"

9 weeks i think she said

Quoting Stephy B:" Your friends are all saying dump her? At 17, you should for sure do everything your friends say...cause ya know, they know everything about being adults."

not saying they are right. im still not sure what to do

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" 9 weeks i think she said"</blockquote>




You can get mixxed feeling about this baby,
but once he or shes born you'll be inlove all over again.
Just think twice on what u really wanna do.
Cause another man can step up and LOVE your girlfriend and baby
like how you could of did but didt want too.

Quoting MX23:" not saying they are right. im still not sure what to do"

Well, did you meet with her and her parents tonight like you said you were going too? How did that go?

Quoting MX23:" 9 weeks i think she said"

ok... 9 weeks baby already has a heart beart.... and it costs about 3-400 dollars for an abortion.... this is very traumatizing for the woman you "love"
(not graphic)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=x_KvVMZw_a4&feature=endscreen (graphic)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=x_KvVMZw_a4&feature=endscreen

Quoting *Expecting #3*:" ok... 9 weeks baby already has a heart beart.... and it costs about 3-400 dollars for an abortion.... ... [snip!] ... (not graphic) http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=x_KvVMZw_a4&feature=endscreen (graphic)"

oh please   don't go all prolife. its a womans right if she WANTS TO. Its just the fact that is OP's girlfriend doesn't want that she should not be pressured. nothing wrong with an abortion though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" well some of that sounds cool and fun like it would be fun if it was a boy to teach him to play sports ... [snip!] ... still love her and i would love to be with her but i wish we could just agree on what to do and not fight all the time about it"</blockquote>


If you truly loved her, you would stop and think about what you're actually asking her to do here. You wouldn't make threats to manipulate her into a decision that she may end up regretting for a lifetime.

Abortion isn't just an easy way out. It doesn't mean that little life forming never existed. I've not had an abortion but from my understanding of most experiences, it's painful, emotionally painful and that's even for someone who chose it. Imagine what it would be like for someone who didn't want it but felt like they had no other choice.

I for sure would never ever ask someone I loved to endure that pain.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" well my parents are gone for a while now so cant even talk to them. i think im just gonna go talk to ... [snip!] ... and take it from there. i hate admitting this but im so nervous. i talked to my friends and they all just say to dump her now"</blockquote>


I hope you do dump her, so she can move on and find someone else who will love her unconditionally like she deserves. It's going to be painful for her now, but in the end, you can't be a man, so it's the best thing for her and your child.

You can't love her as much as you say you do if your first instinct is to bail just because something got too hard.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa [4 days]:</b>" oh please   don't go all prolife. its a womans right if she WANTS TO. Its just the fact that is ... [snip!] ... Its just the fact that is OP's girlfriend doesn't want that she should not be pressured. nothing wrong with an abortion though."</blockquote>


She's not saying it's not the woman's right... She's trying to protect this particular girls right from the douchebag.

That's how I saw it anyway.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bianca ♔:</b>" Dont really give a smurf cause look what got himself into if he was protected, now hes gotta step up and ... [snip!] ... up and be a man to a baby he dont want around. Or he can be another dead beat and move the smurf along and leave the girl alone"</blockquote>



Uh...ho you are 16 and knocked up for the second time. You should probably start giving a smurf and learn how to use contraception correctly before giving out awful advice.

Quoting Marissa [4 days]:" oh please   don't go all prolife. its a womans right if she WANTS TO. Its just the fact that is ... [snip!] ... Its just the fact that is OP's girlfriend doesn't want that she should not be pressured. nothing wrong with an abortion though."

oh trust me hunny im not going all prolife---- i had one once and highly regret it ----and im just letting OP know what an abortion is like... since he seems to be so casual with wanting his girlfriend to get one.... just making sure he knows all of the facts!!!!!!!!!! kthanksbye

1. you should see a councelor!! It'd probably help you a lot! Go see a family one. So they can tell you the truth about being a parent, where you can get help, they'll tell you about the baby, what life will be like. They'll explain how traumatizing an abortion can be.
2. You really going to listen to your friends? Would you jump off a bridge if they told you to?

Also an abortion costs 900, not 300. And they want 650 up front! I called planned parenthood 5 months ago. I was looking at all my options.

Quoting Katie[ღ]Siℓas:" Well, did you meet with her and her parents tonight like you said you were going too? How did that go? "

ya so i went over there and she told them

her mom was upset and disapointed with her

dad was really pissed off but cooled off eventually

they asked what are plans are

said we were to young blah blah blah. wanted to know about school and jobs and college and all that smurf

thats when she said i wanted her to abort but she wanted it. i told them im still not sure what i want. i was nervous

told them i didnt think either of us were ready for this

they agreed with that but said we had to come to a decision soon and they would support her no matter what she decides. siad it would be a big life changer and all that stuff.

her dad asked if we planed to stay together and if i was going to support her and the baby. i didnt know what to say and he figured it out that i wasnt sure

it went bad from there cuz he said something and i guess i rolled my eyes or so he says and then he started to yell. her mom tried to calm him down and they started yelling and he told me to leave and that i needed to really think about this and make an adult decisioin soon and he hopes for my sake that i choose the right one

so it started ok but didnt end good
i dont know what to do anymore. i wanna do the right thing but i just need some time but no one will give me any time to go over all this.