Quoting MX23:" well actually my parents werent around much cause they were always busy working. they started a business ... [snip!] ... whatever i ask for. they are even gone this week. i was gonna spend thanksgiving at my gfs house but i dont think i will now."
Quoting veggie86:" You're 17 years old, you shouldn't be getting drunk in the first place. You seem to make one mistake after another. You really need to start growing up, you have a big responsibility on the way."
Quoting MX23:" lots of people my age drink. it should be legal at 18 at least anyways. besides me drinking doesnt have much to do with this and i dont need a lecture on not drinking.."Doesn't mean they should. Obviously most kids don't posses the maturity to handle drinking at that age. My point is you're trying to excuse your behavior away to being drunk. You made the decision to drink, you made the decision (actually, it was a reoccurring thing) to have sex, pregnancy is a possible outcome. You knew that, you took the risk. Now it's time to take responsibility. You don't have to be with her to help with the baby, but as many girls here have already said, don't act impulsively. Your first instinct is "I don't want this, I can't handle it, get it away from me." As you grow up, you'll realize that that behavior is childish and impulsive. You really need to sit down and talk with your parents. Or maybe a counselor at school. You need to get an adult involved because both of you obviously don't have the skills to deal with such a life changing experience. Best of luck.
Quoting *Expecting #3*:" Life really does not suck with kids, I mean I see that you are 17 and all you can think about right now ... [snip!] ... and want to be in ur childs life and someday it may be too late and ur child will hold hate for u for not being around!!! "
Quoting veggie86:" Doesn't mean they should. Obviously most kids don't posses the maturity to handle drinking at that age. ... [snip!] ... adult involved because both of you obviously don't have the skills to deal with such a life changing experience. Best of luck."
Quoting MX23:" well my parents are gone for a while now so cant even talk to them. i think im just gonna go talk to ... [snip!] ... and take it from there. i hate admitting this but im so nervous. i talked to my friends and they all just say to dump her now"
Quoting MX23:" well some of that sounds cool and fun like it would be fun if it was a boy to teach him to play sports ... [snip!] ... still love her and i would love to be with her but i wish we could just agree on what to do and not fight all the time about it"
Quoting MX23:" well i would hope they talk to her and make her make the right decision i dont care if she aborts or ... [snip!] ... to she isnt being bitchy like she was last night so ill talk to her now cuz i want to make a decision before its to late"
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Bianca ♔:</b>" Hahahahaha. Is this a joke? you're a douche, ... [snip!] ... ignorant smurf."</blockquote> Um....pulling out and double wrapping are both monumentally stupid "protective" measures"