Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" If she wants to keep it you have no say, but if you really dont want to raise it, then break up now, ... [snip!] ... get a relationship with the kid, because in 10 yrs when you grow up you might not have the chance to get that bond with it."
I agree - my sons dad ran out on us, he hasn't seen my son since he was 3 months old and guess what? smurf is sitting there alone and knowing he has a child out there somewhere, not knowing anything about him and not having a relationship with him and he STILL has to pay until my son is 18 years old. Ah...only 14 more years to go, then he's off the hook.
May as well step up and be a man and have a relationship with your child, their going to be a part of your life whether you like it or not, may as well not deny your child a relationship with their father.